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I remember your original post when you were wondering whether to pursue this fantasy. Did he take her in that traditional Indian dress? Would love to hear the details and how you felt when she was away with him and after she got back and told you.

You give good advice. I was giving her some space but every few days I was asking if she had met someone. I'm not going to bring it up again with her while she's away, I'll find out when she gets back. I guess the big unknown for me is whether our relationship will change. I hope it doesn't...

It was a mixed trip, she extended her stay as she was already going to be there. I suggested she extend it so she would more chances to meet someone.

So nothing of note has happened her first week overseas. She's just gone to a new city, excellent nightlife, hot weather, she'll be going out a lot at night not wearing much. The past week has been tough, always thinking about what she's up to and wondering if or when I'm going to get a call...

It doesn't matter if you've done it thousands of times, you don't know her or our situation. Believe me, she has not done this before. This is what makes it especially difficult for me. She's only ever been with me, now she's overseas and has been given the green light to do as she wants. I...

Sorry I couldn't do that to her.

I need to offload my thoughts and share my situation, this seems like the place for it. My wife and I have been married for 12 years. She was a virgin when we married, and for the whole of our marriage we've had very vanilla sex (no oral, missionary only). I've always tried to push her to be...