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I totally get it, I just wish it wasn't that way. Surely we all feel the same? Why would we want to live a secret life? To relate that back to my original post, the sneaking around is what make you feel like you're doing something wrong when you're not.

Yes I can see that and agree. I'm just finding that the longer and further we move along our experience in this lifestyle that our normal is more towards the scene than it is away from it. Then I question why can't I be the normal me all the time. I'm tired of living two lives. I'm the good...

Thank you for a wonderful post. I get the impression that many are very cavalier with the respect they pay to their partner / marriage. It's nice to know I'm not some freak for feeling the way I do. It's healthy in any aspect of life to be able to talk through things with ones support network...

That sounds like a business opportunity right there. Mixing business with pleasure...

Hmmm. From my point of view that is just not on. I think we're all open here about being with other people but a huge part of that is total trust. As Savage Garden told us "trust is more important than monogamy". To me, that sort of secrecy is a huge red flag. I would be making it very very...

This is exactly how I've always felt but you know what, I miss going out with girlfriends and laughing and giggling when talking about out sex lives. Now I just have to make stuff up, I would love to shock them and tell them exactly what we've been doing for the last few years. I think what...

I've never been on a cruise but for my last birthday my hubby hired a houseboat and invited one of my female and three male lovers. We cruised up and down the river for four days. Needless to say a good time was had by all. Going on a cruise where you're actually meeting new like minded people...

That sounds great. How did it play out with those that do know? Did you lose friends? Do they treat you differently now they know? Are they ok if you bring your lover to a party?

I'm much the same I guess. I don't think about it at the time but, nor do I think about it once I get home and talk to my hubby about it, but for example I might be training one of my clients the next day and I just randomly start thinking about what a sl*t I have been and feel a little guilty...

Hi all, I’ve been lurking here for quite some time and now I guess it’s my time to post. My husband and I sort of fell into this lifestyle by accident about three years ago but since that time we’ve become very active and enjoyed what it has to offer. My question is to other wives really, do...