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I agree that there can be a positive form of jealousy. But my comments were about a toxic form of jealousy that is founded on insecurity and possessive feelings. We both did have to focus on the issue of negative jealousy and we defeated it by focusing on feelings of love for each other...

The cuckold concept is in reality very different from the hotwife concept and both are different than open marriage and swinging or swapping. The terms get blurred. When we tried it the first time we did think of it as a hotwife event. But once we did a FMF and I started sharing Carl with...

It is very interesting to read your views about kissing VS fucking. To me they are both intimate expressions and they go together. But part of it is that I don't just lay back and get fucked. If I decided to give my body to a man it means I want us both to fully experience each other. I...

Well it is a good thing that we are all different. For me fucking a guy without kissing him would be like wearing a raincoat while taking a shower. I do have to wonder why cock in pussy is ok for you but tongue in mouth is not. I am not saying there is anything wrong about your feelings...

You may want to read my post "Sexually open marriage and jealousy." It is just a few items up on the list. I say that because once the talking starts things escalate very quickly. Especially if there is already a guy that she is interested in. So you need to be totally sure that you...

I think that a sexually closed marriage is unnatural and leads to sexual frustration and marriage problems. On the other hand a sexually open marriage must face issues of STD, unwanted pregnancy and feelings of jealous. Concerns about STD and pregnancy can be resolved with condoms and other...

Jealousy effects both men and women. Carl and I did not wake up one morning and suddenly no longer have selfish, controlling, possessive-jealous feelings. Carl has always been a secure alpha-male but he had to work at out-growing jealousy. Once he knew that sexual variety would make me...

I think it is good that we are not all the same and I am not critical of how other couples work things out. But to be honest, for me I don't see what is significant about "sleeping" together. When we have a guy over for a weekend and have MFM sex and DP we end up tired and need to sleep...

The growing interest in the "hotwife" life has created a number of terms that seem to blur together. The 'wife and cuck' concept is really very different than a 'hotwife and husband' relationship. My husband is not a cuck. I am not into humiliating him or making him clean up other guys...

Sorry about the typos in the above post. I was distracted by a humming vibrator while I was typing.

Like most couples that explore and expanded sex life my husband and I went "wild" with excitement when opened our marriage. At first it was just be with other guys but lots and lots of MFM and DP kept my husband in thrill mode. It seemed like the more sex we had the more we wanted. In time...

So if you had to be out of town for a while you would want her to sleep alone? That seems really lonely to me. But again, to each his own.

I love sleeping with my husband but he is out of town right now so I am sleeping with FWB because I don't like sleeping alone. My husband prefers that I have someone to sleep with when he is gone. It is not an issue for us. If we have a guy over for a weekend I sleep in the middle of our...

Stranger Danger! The idea of fucking a total stranger is hot. But it is also dangerous. If she fucks a stranger and anything goes wrong she is not going to want to play anymore. You want her first time to be fantastic if you want it to become your sexual life style. My first time was...

If a guy is the jealous type HE WILL regret it. The first time he sees another guys sperm leaking out of his wife he will wish he had not done it.

Testing is smart but remember that tests are NOT comprehensive. There are lots of STD and test do not cover everything. If you play with strangers and go bareback sooner or later you will get something you don't want. We find that developing a circle of SAFE friends that are fuck buddies...

My husband was the first to bring the topic up but I really did not need much coaxing. I just needed to know that if we tried it our marriage would not fall apart. I did view it as a bit of a gamble but he made it so clear that it would just be sex and that we should view it as an extension...

Sharing a wife or girlfriend is very hot and very rewarding. But it is also addictive. We started 6 years ago as a bucket list event and we both knew from the first time that it was going to be a new way of life. So it makes sense to view it as a new chapter of your sex life because that is...