Earlier today was when I did it.  My wife and I were having a discussion over text message (I am having to be away due to work for sometime).  It was play about her having a boyfriend and what she would do.  Later on I text to her saying our conversation earlier was hot.  She asked me if her being with another guy turned me on.  I told her in a way it does but just talking.  I was afraid if I said for real she would go off the deep end.  To my surprise she didn’t get upset and wanted to know why.  After I told her she said what ever floats my boat.  She said she would humor me with talking but that was it.  I was excited, but also cautious.  My question would be, how do I proceed from this point?  Any help would be appreciate.d.