Steps in that direction

tbrassfi78

Well-Known Member
Earlier today was when I did it. My wife and I were having a discussion over text message (I am having to be away due to work for sometime). It was play about her having a boyfriend and what she would do. Later on I text to her saying our conversation earlier was hot. She asked me if her being with another guy turned me on. I told her in a way it does but just talking. I was afraid if I said for real she would go off the deep end. To my surprise she didn’t get upset and wanted to know why. After I told her she said what ever floats my boat. She said she would humor me with talking but that was it. I was excited, but also cautious. My question would be, how do I proceed from this point? Any help would be appreciate.d.
 
You may want to read my post "Sexually open marriage and jealousy." It is just a few items up on the list. I say that because once the talking starts things escalate very quickly. Especially if there is already a guy that she is interested in. So you need to be totally sure that you can handle the jealousy end of it. It is one of those cases of "be careful what you wish for." But if you are secure and would not be jealous then yes, keep up the RP and start watching MFM and gangbang porn together. Have her read some hotwife accounts. That is what Carl did and I really did not need a lot of coaxing. I really believe that MOST sexually healthy wives would be willing to go hot. After all about 50 of married women admit to cheating so why wouldn't they go for it with a green light?