Earlier today was when I did it. My wife and I were having a discussion over text message (I am having to be away due to work for sometime). It was play about her having a boyfriend and what she would do. Later on I text to her saying our conversation earlier was hot. She asked me if her being with another guy turned me on. I told her in a way it does but just talking. I was afraid if I said for real she would go off the deep end. To my surprise she didn’t get upset and wanted to know why. After I told her she said what ever floats my boat. She said she would humor me with talking but that was it. I was excited, but also cautious. My question would be, how do I proceed from this point? Any help would be appreciate.d.