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Thanks for the feedback. Nothing is feigned Ray. Angelo, you provided exactly what I was looking for, some real steps to take to help improve our communication. Craig, yes I did want the full cuckold experience. That’s what I asked her for and she gave it to me the best that she could so god...

Thanks for the feedback. Lack of communication on who’s part? Mine, hers, both of us? I thought I was communicating by saying what bothered me? Please elaborate on how we could have communicated better. Just want to know how to make it a better experience for both of us the next time we try...

My wife found this post and wrote a reply. She doesn’t want to post it but she allowed me to. Here it is, unedited; “I had not searched out this forum as I told him I understood that he needed a place to go and share his thoughts and speak with like minded people. My outlet was Guy #1 and not...

Thanks for the advice everyone. I really didn’t want to end this. She made that decision. I think we could have continued but she wanted it on her terms and she expected me to me to fall into place without without complaining about anything that bothered me. She was fed up with the three things...

Wow man, that’s a little over the top, don’t you think? What experience do you have on this subject? Anyone ever post stuff on here when everything implodes like you describe? I couldn’t find many posts where this lifestyle didn’t work out and the marriage ended in divorce.

Honestly, at this point Im not worrying too much about it. I didn’t end it, she did. I tried to do it for her, give her what she wants and needs but she tried to jump right into the deep end before we even knew how to swim. She was like a kid in a candy store. Whenever I mentioned anything that...

It’s been a complete train wreck. I tried, just couldn’t do it. Sorry guys.

Regarding the texting, my issue is that she has been texting him excessively and downplaying it instead of engaging me about it and telling me how much they have been texting. She was trying to hide it rather then bringing me into the fun. I’ve told her numerous times before not to hold back on...

I get it. This is my life now and I must let her do what she wants whenever she wants. She a true sexual being who needs cocks, multiple. She texts her boyfriends 30-40 times a day on average, sending sexy pics and dirty texts all day. She wants me to join her and her two boyfriends in a four...

Thanks for your input here. I am better with it now. One thing I want to point out though is that this is not what I wanted. She proposed the cuckold lifestyle to me because she is a very sexual woman who was wild before I met her and She wants to get back to that lifestyle. Me as the loving...

I promised to update you folks on here so here it is. My wife’s fuck buddy came up to our state on Fourth of July weekend to see his family but was unable to make time to see my wife. Needless to say she was very disappointed. After that she created an online account on a swingers site and...

Just an update if anyone is still following this. My wife canceled the trip to Florida in June due to family issues I won’t get into. She is probably going to fuck him in sometime in July and August when he comes up. She won’t be going there for the time being. I’m both disappointed and...

Absolutely Samsh, that’s a given but this better lead to improved and more frequent sex for us or it will be over as quickly as it started. I’m prepared to deal with the ramifications my decision to end it may have on our marriage. Don't get me wrong, part of me enjoys the kink of being the...

I’ve been quiet after the last few posts since it seemed not everyone wanted to hear about my angst. The angst is off the chart when your wife tells you she wants to fuck other guys and she’s going to Florida to fuck a friend for 5 days in June. I’m still struggling with it and we have had a...

I had insane amounts of angst when I first posted this thread. They have subsided a bit after receiving the mostly positive feedback. I appreciate the negative feedback as well but I’m trying my best to ignore them and keep this positive. That’s all I can do at this point. I would like to hear...

Regarding cuckold vibes I could have been giving off, I did always put her pussy on a pedestal and worship it, always wanted to make sure she came when we had sex and loved to eat her pussy and bring her to climax. If that is a cuckold vibe then there may be some validity to that.

Oh I’ve thought about her fucking him prior to this discussion Mark, thought about it a lot. She said she didn’t and I do trust her on that even though she betrayed my trust by sexting this other guy and making plans for this fuckfest in June behind my back so that is a difficult to rationalize.

So from the tone of the initial conversation we had, the future of our marriage sounded bleak if something didn’t change. She mentioned how she was unhappy and unfulfilled. She said she felt similar to this near the end of her first marriage so that scared the shit out of me. I was certain the...

And to answer a previous question I forgot to respond to, she cannot check my browser history. I only use my iphone to search for porn and she can’t get into this. Nor would she try to even if she could somehow manage to get into it. She doesn’t care what I’m into, she just wants this other mans...

Very true. I don’t think I’d be able to get through this without all the support and hard love I’ve gotten on this thread the past couple of weeks. You have all been great. As a reward I’ll definitely keep you posted on events leading up the her departure and after. I keep reminding myself how...