My wife blocked me from her sex-life over 5 years ago and goes out all dressed up with a guy she works with at least twice per week.
I recently asked her if she was ever going to allow me to be intimate with her again and she came back a couple of days later saying maybe & that her lover is ok...
The 'Fat Man' who has been visiting us for almost 5 years (or so). That's the kind of liberty he takes with her, showing up at our home in the middle of an afternoon.