Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I admitted to my wife that I had a desire to see her with a bigger man. Like many vanilla monogamous minded wives, she couldn't understand why a man would want to see someone else fuck his wife, especially a bigger one. I explained to her that I'm not possessive and feel like as long as its consensual, a woman should be able to experience as much pleasure as she can even if its beyond what her male partner can achieve on his own. Basically I said my ego isnt wrapped up in being her sole means of pleasure. She said that when we have sex ( which has been decreasing over the last few years) she was happy with it, but if we wanted to take that route it would have to be a long way down the road as she felt we needed to continue working on our relationship building it to a level where we could bring another man in.
And that was the last time it was ever discussed. Until.....
This past weekend, I wrote my wife a lengthy letter about our lives. We have become stuck in a rut where the sex has all but dried up. My wife, 47, has a sex drive multiple times that of mine and could fuck multiple times daily if I could keep up with that. Anyways, within the content of the letter, among other things that are immaterial to the relevant part for this board, I went full on how much I enjoy seeing a hung man fuck a woman, and that fantasy had preceded our marriage. I told her about how much I loved big cock porn especially with Mandingo, how an ex had told me about a 10 inch guy she had been with before me, and how much the idea of her being with a bigger man turned me on. I admitted to her that I got off on the idea that there were moments where I felt she was too wet for me and felt like she needed something bigger, but like a protective wife she didnt want to outright admit such.
So, after a slight pause, she says paraphrasing ' the times when I get really wet and slippery, I wish you would go deeper'( for the record I'm about 6.5-7 but I guess in terms of insertable length it's an inch less than those numbers). So I ask her 'so basically in that situation you basically need a longer cock then'.
'Yes.'
Thats all I wanted, the outright admission instead of the 'you're more than good enough for me babe' half truths she would say before. So I said 'well if that's the case, let's get in some big dildo play and see where it goes ( she has an 8 inch white dildo but I'd like to go for a 9 or bigger BBC one). She says 'ok but how will that work if I want to feel you as my husband and not just a piece of silicon?' My reply ' well since I have a long refraction period and we always end the session( it's usually one round, albeit a good 20 mins or so) with you wanting more, why not let me do my thing first and when you're now fully wet and wide open from either your orgasm or my cum, the dildo can be my back up for round 2 and beyond.' It was like a light bulb went off in her head 'oh yeah, that works!'
So this all led to her saying ' at this point, I'm at the fuck it stage. I just want pleasure so we can bring someone in, but let's work on it and where we gonna find someone?' I said 'I don't know? But let's get you fully in that space and then we can go on the hunt'. So our next move is going to our local adult shop and getting a BBC dildo and then let the races begin.
Now, my wife initially 2 years ago was hesitant but was like 'maybe we can work up to it'. But this time felt different. The basically dead bedroom, her sexual needs not being fulfilled in a way I think she deserves, it's all coming to a head and she is evolving past the idea of monogamy and just wanting pleasure, wherever she can find it and with my blessing.
The story continues, and I hope to update you with new developments: )
And that was the last time it was ever discussed. Until.....
This past weekend, I wrote my wife a lengthy letter about our lives. We have become stuck in a rut where the sex has all but dried up. My wife, 47, has a sex drive multiple times that of mine and could fuck multiple times daily if I could keep up with that. Anyways, within the content of the letter, among other things that are immaterial to the relevant part for this board, I went full on how much I enjoy seeing a hung man fuck a woman, and that fantasy had preceded our marriage. I told her about how much I loved big cock porn especially with Mandingo, how an ex had told me about a 10 inch guy she had been with before me, and how much the idea of her being with a bigger man turned me on. I admitted to her that I got off on the idea that there were moments where I felt she was too wet for me and felt like she needed something bigger, but like a protective wife she didnt want to outright admit such.
So, after a slight pause, she says paraphrasing ' the times when I get really wet and slippery, I wish you would go deeper'( for the record I'm about 6.5-7 but I guess in terms of insertable length it's an inch less than those numbers). So I ask her 'so basically in that situation you basically need a longer cock then'.
'Yes.'
Thats all I wanted, the outright admission instead of the 'you're more than good enough for me babe' half truths she would say before. So I said 'well if that's the case, let's get in some big dildo play and see where it goes ( she has an 8 inch white dildo but I'd like to go for a 9 or bigger BBC one). She says 'ok but how will that work if I want to feel you as my husband and not just a piece of silicon?' My reply ' well since I have a long refraction period and we always end the session( it's usually one round, albeit a good 20 mins or so) with you wanting more, why not let me do my thing first and when you're now fully wet and wide open from either your orgasm or my cum, the dildo can be my back up for round 2 and beyond.' It was like a light bulb went off in her head 'oh yeah, that works!'
So this all led to her saying ' at this point, I'm at the fuck it stage. I just want pleasure so we can bring someone in, but let's work on it and where we gonna find someone?' I said 'I don't know? But let's get you fully in that space and then we can go on the hunt'. So our next move is going to our local adult shop and getting a BBC dildo and then let the races begin.
Now, my wife initially 2 years ago was hesitant but was like 'maybe we can work up to it'. But this time felt different. The basically dead bedroom, her sexual needs not being fulfilled in a way I think she deserves, it's all coming to a head and she is evolving past the idea of monogamy and just wanting pleasure, wherever she can find it and with my blessing.
The story continues, and I hope to update you with new developments: )
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