Hi everyone. Absolutely loving this forum and decided to post my problem on here as well. Would appreciate realistic advice please.
We are a married couple from Pakistan, I am in my early 40s, she in her last 30s. We have been married for 15 years and have two children. My wife is a typical Pakistani woman - a good wife, a good mother and a fairly practising Muslim. Based on her behaviour and her religious nature, I have never broached the subject of my fantasies - for fear of her freaking out or worse. I personally think, at this point, that while my fantasy might be to share her, it is something that can never become a reality. She'd probably sooner die than let that happen. Having said that, I would love to see her with another man or men and really do wish to have that happen, I would be overjoyed even if she were open to roleplaying about it etc.
For now, there are two things I want to bring to our sex life - watching porn together and anal sex. Both are forbidden from a religious point of view so I feel that might be a big stumbling block - and something she might use to aid her in resisting getting into this. Our sex life currently is good - 2-4 times a week but its starting to get monotonous and I'm craving something new. Maybe she is too, but when I ask her, she says she's very happy with it.
I'm open to a discussion or advice or anything that the experienced members here can offer. Thank you in advance for your help and time. I would specially welcome advice from Indian/Pakistani/Muslim women, as I feel their insight would be quite on point!
We are a married couple from Pakistan, I am in my early 40s, she in her last 30s. We have been married for 15 years and have two children. My wife is a typical Pakistani woman - a good wife, a good mother and a fairly practising Muslim. Based on her behaviour and her religious nature, I have never broached the subject of my fantasies - for fear of her freaking out or worse. I personally think, at this point, that while my fantasy might be to share her, it is something that can never become a reality. She'd probably sooner die than let that happen. Having said that, I would love to see her with another man or men and really do wish to have that happen, I would be overjoyed even if she were open to roleplaying about it etc.
For now, there are two things I want to bring to our sex life - watching porn together and anal sex. Both are forbidden from a religious point of view so I feel that might be a big stumbling block - and something she might use to aid her in resisting getting into this. Our sex life currently is good - 2-4 times a week but its starting to get monotonous and I'm craving something new. Maybe she is too, but when I ask her, she says she's very happy with it.
I'm open to a discussion or advice or anything that the experienced members here can offer. Thank you in advance for your help and time. I would specially welcome advice from Indian/Pakistani/Muslim women, as I feel their insight would be quite on point!
