My wife and I really enjoy getting together with our male third. He's a great guy, and we always have an amazing time.
Typically when he comes over, we will start the evening in the living room area with the three of us on the couch. My wife sits between us, making it easy for me and the other guy to touch and play with her while we all socialize and talk about whatever. As the night progresses, the amount of touching increases, which in turn helps to create this awesome sexual buildup. After about an hour, when all three of us are sufficiently worked up, we will move the party into the bedroom.
Here is where I need some advice. When we get to the point where everyone is ready to hit the bedroom, my wife will start to act silly and make comments that are sorta dorky. Example, while me and the other guy are rubbing her legs and trying to be seductive, she will break the sexual tension by saying something like “umm is everyone ready to hit the bedroom? I know I am!” Or “yes please. I just need to have hands all over me. Like now please”. This can be super annoying. It’s like…yes, we’re all thinking the same thing here, just relax and let the experience play out naturally. We
I appreciate her being direct, and letting us know when she’s ready to go. But at the same time, her comments sometimes throw off the vibe, and interrupts the momentum.
So here is my question…how do we move the party from the living room into the bedroom so that my wife doesn’t feel the need to make these comments? She’s incredibly submissive, and loves to please, so I think she will be down with us taking the lead.
Typically when he comes over, we will start the evening in the living room area with the three of us on the couch. My wife sits between us, making it easy for me and the other guy to touch and play with her while we all socialize and talk about whatever. As the night progresses, the amount of touching increases, which in turn helps to create this awesome sexual buildup. After about an hour, when all three of us are sufficiently worked up, we will move the party into the bedroom.
Here is where I need some advice. When we get to the point where everyone is ready to hit the bedroom, my wife will start to act silly and make comments that are sorta dorky. Example, while me and the other guy are rubbing her legs and trying to be seductive, she will break the sexual tension by saying something like “umm is everyone ready to hit the bedroom? I know I am!” Or “yes please. I just need to have hands all over me. Like now please”. This can be super annoying. It’s like…yes, we’re all thinking the same thing here, just relax and let the experience play out naturally. We
I appreciate her being direct, and letting us know when she’s ready to go. But at the same time, her comments sometimes throw off the vibe, and interrupts the momentum.
So here is my question…how do we move the party from the living room into the bedroom so that my wife doesn’t feel the need to make these comments? She’s incredibly submissive, and loves to please, so I think she will be down with us taking the lead.
