Hey everyone, married for 13 years, been watching hotwife porn for about 10 years, told my wife about it appx 2 years ago. I think we are almost there. When I first told her she just said wow, and she was super shocked. A few months later she said she just liked our sex bc it is comfortable. Then a few months later she said she was scared of stds. I have talked her down from all her excuses and now i think we are at the last one - she can't do it without getting feelings.
Well i don't care if she gets feelings or not, in fact its probably hotter if she does. But i can't say that to her.
so basically now there are three possibilities: 1 she will never do it; 2 she won't do it unless she gets feelings for someone on the side first; 3 i come up with a way to extinguish her last excuse.
I prefer 3, as i think 2 is unlikely and 1 is not satisfying.
Help me out - what do i say?
Well i don't care if she gets feelings or not, in fact its probably hotter if she does. But i can't say that to her.
so basically now there are three possibilities: 1 she will never do it; 2 she won't do it unless she gets feelings for someone on the side first; 3 i come up with a way to extinguish her last excuse.
I prefer 3, as i think 2 is unlikely and 1 is not satisfying.
Help me out - what do i say?