Anal Sex

I am a husband here 45yo.. Never tried anal with my wife as she says " Not there" whenever i try to touch or finger her anal slightly during sex.. in contrast when she is in mood and horny she moans when i lick her ass or insert my finger slightly.....she let me lick it as much as i need and she moans so loudly even louder than i fuck or lick her pussy....I think my wife feels uneasy thinking of my finger or cock get dirty or something not that she doesnt like the feeling.....my wife doesnt have constipation as well....Any idea how should i proceed and how to make her comfortable with it? Does she require preparation before going for fingering or anal sex always..? i mean enema or something? is it always requires? Anyone got experience of getting your cock or finger get dirt with poo ? pls be openly comment..
 
I am a husband here 45yo.. Never tried anal with my wife as she says " Not there" whenever i try to touch or finger her anal slightly during sex.. in contrast when she is in mood and horny she moans when i lick her ass or insert my finger slightly.....she let me lick it as much as i need and she moans so loudly even louder than i fuck or lick her pussy....I think my wife feels uneasy thinking of my finger or cock get dirty or something not that she doesnt like the feeling.....my wife doesnt have constipation as well....Any idea how should i proceed and how to make her comfortable with it? Does she require preparation before going for fingering or anal sex always..? i mean enema or something? is it always requires? Anyone got experience of getting your cock or finger get dirt with poo ? pls be openly comment..
Good questions. The most important thing I do before ass play is to totally douche my ass out. If you go on utube you'll find all kinds of information about how to go about it. Second thing is before taking a big cock I open my boi pussy up 1st by using small to larger dildos until I'm open and stretched enough to take his big cock with out being hurt. If you'll be doing extended play take an Imodium after douching.
 
You are doing the right thing by licking her ass and playing with it. You just need to start slow. Tongue then finger. Introduce lots of lube. Try to make her cum with just a finger in her ass first. Then get some butt plugs before you try your cock.
More than anything though it’s about her attitude and whether she actually wants to try or not. You should talk about it. If she is game to try and can handle a bit of pain (and most women can) then you are good to go!
I wonder if your wife would like me to enjoy her skills like this
 

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Anal definitely takes some preparation.. Imagine if a woman just bent you over and shoved a dildo right in your ass without prepping.
My wife just let me fuck her ass for the first time after 15 years a couple days ago and the only reason she let me was because she had been drinking tequila. lol
It very well may gross your wife out but just reassure her how hot and sexy it is and ask how it feels often. Be gentle! My wife loves when I just stimulate her ass while fucking her from behind. But typically as soon as I try to put my finger in she pulls away. It's all about the mood she's in and what she wants in the moment.
Keep doing what youre doing and youll be fucking her ass in no time brother!
I think the most important thing to do is thoroughly clean and douche you ass before anal play.
 
I agree but it seems to me most people don't know that, especially the first time.
It's probably been three decades since the last time I had an anal virgin and even back when I was getting to do some butt fucking none of them classified as anal sluts just regular sluts that occasionally enjoyed butt fucking at least with me don't know if they let anybody else in there