Our situation is nuanced. KK's in three long-term relationships with other men; a decades long affair with her youngest brother, a relationship with a European gentleman that started as an affair, then "migrated" to an open situation (so far as I'm concerned) after we started the hot wife thing, and a relationship with her high-school ex that started as part of our hot wife adventure.
These relationships have been buffered by distance, as all three men live fairly distant from us, which limits the frequency KK can see them for sex, or any other need.
More recently, for a bit longer than the last year, KK's enjoying a steady "boyfriend," a man whom I introduced to her. He's local, accessible, both sexually addicted, and enslaved to my wife.
As an observer, and "student" of these relationships, there is definitely emotion involved. It's more difficult to gauge the intensity of KK's sexual/romantic partners, as to how they feel about my wife. I've discussed this in-depth with KK often, for her perspective. She is physically, as well as emotionally attracted to all four men. She feels "love" for them, a blend of what I'd call infatuation or limerence, as well as genuine emotional depth of feeling.
When KK is with these men, it isn't just sex - it's more than fucking. The act itself is love-making, intense, intimate, blending physicality and emotion. Oddly, I'm hard just writing about it, the visualization of it, thinking about it, her interactions, passionate kissing, lust, desire, her impatience and anticipation when she's going to be with them...
Outside of watching, and the voyeuristic aspects, when I'm included in threesomes or more-somes with KK and her lovers, the intensity of the experience is almost indescribable. The comfort, trust, and familiarity with these partners leads to the most erotic, intimate encounters I've ever enjoyed.
We don't use the label "bull," but I'd definitely say the long-term aspect has changed things, very much for the positive.
These relationships have been buffered by distance, as all three men live fairly distant from us, which limits the frequency KK can see them for sex, or any other need.
More recently, for a bit longer than the last year, KK's enjoying a steady "boyfriend," a man whom I introduced to her. He's local, accessible, both sexually addicted, and enslaved to my wife.
As an observer, and "student" of these relationships, there is definitely emotion involved. It's more difficult to gauge the intensity of KK's sexual/romantic partners, as to how they feel about my wife. I've discussed this in-depth with KK often, for her perspective. She is physically, as well as emotionally attracted to all four men. She feels "love" for them, a blend of what I'd call infatuation or limerence, as well as genuine emotional depth of feeling.
When KK is with these men, it isn't just sex - it's more than fucking. The act itself is love-making, intense, intimate, blending physicality and emotion. Oddly, I'm hard just writing about it, the visualization of it, thinking about it, her interactions, passionate kissing, lust, desire, her impatience and anticipation when she's going to be with them...
Outside of watching, and the voyeuristic aspects, when I'm included in threesomes or more-somes with KK and her lovers, the intensity of the experience is almost indescribable. The comfort, trust, and familiarity with these partners leads to the most erotic, intimate encounters I've ever enjoyed.
We don't use the label "bull," but I'd definitely say the long-term aspect has changed things, very much for the positive.
