Any Way to Safely Explore a Cheating Kink?

So me and my wife have always been honest and loyal to each other. A may of you have seen some other threads and she has had a few missteps she has later confessed to. The last guy she played with she eneded up hiding dms and not being honest about communication, which goes against the boundaries we agreed to. She does like to play solo which she has said is paritally because she feels like shes "cheating" even if she records. It seems that this doesn't quite reach that itch. The last guy came back and was trying to get her to delete all their dms after he found out she got in trouble cuz he assumed she was that kind of wife, which shes not. Early in her hotwife career she started getting into homewrecking and I think it exposed her to all this cheating stuff which she has secretly loved. We just dont want it to damage our relationship.

She has admitted she does have a cheating kink, so is there a way we can safely explore this while still keeping constant communication about everything she is doing? She is allowed to go on dating sites and find guys but we always talk in depth about everything that she is doing and the conversations she has.
 
So me and my wife have always been honest and loyal to each other. A may of you have seen some other threads and she has had a few missteps she has later confessed to. The last guy she played with she eneded up hiding dms and not being honest about communication, which goes against the boundaries we agreed to. She does like to play solo which she has said is paritally because she feels like shes "cheating" even if she records. It seems that this doesn't quite reach that itch. The last guy came back and was trying to get her to delete all their dms after he found out she got in trouble cuz he assumed she was that kind of wife, which shes not. Early in her hotwife career she started getting into homewrecking and I think it exposed her to all this cheating stuff which she has secretly loved. We just dont want it to damage our relationship.

She has admitted she does have a cheating kink, so is there a way we can safely explore this while still keeping constant communication about everything she is doing? She is allowed to go on dating sites and find guys but we always talk in depth about everything that she is doing and the conversations she has.

Home wreaking is never a good thing, cheating on the other hand is very intense sexually, I know it is a big part of my life. I never understood it why when my man and I are in an open swinging life style relationship why I cheat or him for that matter. What I do know it is very exciting sexually and I know where she is coming from. I feel as long as you two are both on the same page with it and you have accepted her as a hot wife who needs strange dick then everything is ok! It took many years and lots of affairs for us to come to terms with the fact it happens. On both sides. Him and I. Be happy even she is fucking total strangers or your best friend, she still loves you and is coming home to you when she’s finished.
I think you two are onto a great thing!
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So me and my wife have always been honest and loyal to each other. A may of you have seen some other threads and she has had a few missteps she has later confessed to. The last guy she played with she eneded up hiding dms and not being honest about communication, which goes against the boundaries we agreed to. She does like to play solo which she has said is paritally because she feels like shes "cheating" even if she records. It seems that this doesn't quite reach that itch. The last guy came back and was trying to get her to delete all their dms after he found out she got in trouble cuz he assumed she was that kind of wife, which shes not. Early in her hotwife career she started getting into homewrecking and I think it exposed her to all this cheating stuff which she has secretly loved. We just dont want it to damage our relationship.

She has admitted she does have a cheating kink, so is there a way we can safely explore this while still keeping constant communication about everything she is doing? She is allowed to go on dating sites and find guys but we always talk in depth about everything that she is doing and the conversations she has.
Home wrecking intentionally is absolutely despicable! Certainly it can happen accidentally if great caution is not exercised. In any case, it's best to be avoided. I have an unquenchable kink for married men. I absolutely love that some guy's wife is back home or wherever and he's enjoying me. Bare play and taking his cum is the ultimate high. I especially enjoy when I've been to a resort, party, etc and I have some woman's husband's cum still inside of me. I have no idea the psychology of that.

That said, the problems are many and quite perilous of getting caught and "home wrecking". Not the least of which is a jealous spouse coming for you out of revenge, or posting things about it online and to your friends and family and worse yet....getting dragged into court in the middle of some
nasty divorce battle. Families at stake, financial future at stake...just be careful..

Mrs Hw
 
I was never interested in "home-wrecking", if their wives started asking too many questions we just agreed to stop the relationship. I am still friends with most of the guys I had affairs with, and honestly if most of them wanted to start back up I would be more than willing.
I DO, however, find "cheating" to be sexciting!!
Despite knowing that I am able to have an affair with anyone I desire and hubby is fine with it, most of my affairs start behind hubby's back, in that he is not aware I am flirting with a new potential Lover....and a couple of them I actually had sex with them BEFORE hubby knew we were even a thing. There is just something titillating about that situation. Hard to explain........
My affair with my Boss/Lover was actually going on for two years before I actually TOLD hubby about it.....he's not dumb, he knew something was going on with all the increased business travel, hastily planned "business trips", and it was actually a quickly planned trip to Cancun for a 4 day weekend that resulted in me coming home and telling hubby ALL about the affair....LONG story, but the reason for the trip was to celebrate our decision to graduate from "only when we travel for business" meetings to "full time, anytime" Lovers even when we were at home and I needed to be able to be available more frequently and on short notice to be with my Boss/Lover.......hubby took it quite well actually!! LOL
But there is just something HOT about having someone that hubby doesn't know about yet..........J (the wife)
 
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So me and my wife have always been honest and loyal to each other. A may of you have seen some other threads and she has had a few missteps she has later confessed to. The last guy she played with she eneded up hiding dms and not being honest about communication, which goes against the boundaries we agreed to. She does like to play solo which she has said is paritally because she feels like shes "cheating" even if she records. It seems that this doesn't quite reach that itch. The last guy came back and was trying to get her to delete all their dms after he found out she got in trouble cuz he assumed she was that kind of wife, which shes not. Early in her hotwife career she started getting into homewrecking and I think it exposed her to all this cheating stuff which she has secretly loved. We just dont want it to damage our relationship.

She has admitted she does have a cheating kink, so is there a way we can safely explore this while still keeping constant communication about everything she is doing? She is allowed to go on dating sites and find guys but we always talk in depth about everything that she is doing and the conversations she has.
She can dm me any time