Interesting take. My philosophy is TOTALLY different though. I had two great "mentors" in all things sexual when I was still in High School and shortly after, both sexy women. I used to think like you when I started out but they both actually encouraged me differently, to NEVER go out, go to the gym, etc and not look like somebody other guys want to fuck. Look sexy when it's appropriate *clearly toned down around family and in a professional way at those types of settings). Still I try to look "sexy" whenever I'm seen, but certainly not "slutty" around work or family. I might tell that story sometime. It was HUGE in shaping my sexual behavior.
Mrs Hotwife
Below is a "collage" from me going to the grocery store this summer. I have many other examples, not sure if that's what you want to see though with this thread.
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