Anyone else like this?

So my wife enjoys taking a 9 inch black thick dildo and seriously it turns me on more than having sex with her

I enjoy texting her and her using it while Im not there, but she is reluctant and only wants to use it when I am with her

I feel like its the next logical step, where she uses it when I am not there and then craves it even more until she hardly feels any pleasure from me

Ah its so good, anyone else in a similar situation?