Anyone prefer that she has a serious affair instead of casual ones?

[calicolombia69]

Strangely, since she turned 50, she has been having about same or even more sex dates than when she was 20-30. Also, I think, thanks to 2nd boob job, ass job, lipo and C-section tattoo. Unfortunately 99% of her affairs are one-one and me not directly involved. But that is another story.

We have spent a small fortune on all the bodycon dresses you can find on chicme.com and shein. And she willingly wears them all to the bars. pantyless and braless. Nipples show thru and you will also get an eyefull of ass if she has to climb stairs.

Point here is that lately, I AM THE ONE who has been losing interest in her pursuits. Maybe my age or maybe they are losing significance. I prefer to take her out myself and see how guys gawk at the bars and then bring her home. I am satisfied to have seen that others desire her.

That was, until very recently. One of her bulls has been quite a drama queen. For over a year, she has all but had to plead him to find time to fuck her. She kept dumping him but found herself going back to him time an again; like a battered spouse! Ffwd: he has finally changed and now has her stay overnight and fucks her up to 3 times each stay. He is finally cuming inside her. We think that he believes she is 40 or so and still fertile!. She does long young for her age. So now, she is really starting to like him more and more. She swallows his cum over and over again. Something she rarely does with anyone to health concerns. (unless ...... or just too horny to stop herself)

Now suddenly, I am back to getting hardons again! I am getting hardons from feeling that I am truly sharing her. It is so different to listen to her say that she longs to be in his bed again vs an inconsequential sex story with a one-night guy.

We are beyond the risk of her leaving me for him. He is definitely not into a serious affair and we are grandparents! Thanks for reading

 

[Stevens4fun]

I agree with the part that when they go a alone, they score much faster. A few times, will a guy approach us together to drum up conversation. I think its because they also know its a pickup bar and she dresses so damn hot that they risk coming over to chat. She manages to dress erotic but not slutty. It takes practice! Like a long dress but the slit goes up passed the thong strap.

So if she crosses her leg at the right time and right angle, you get a full view which you otherwise don't. Same with blouse. Open down the middle with no buttons and braless. But it hangs right over tits. But if she bends over just enough and you are looking from a side, you get to see a whole tit.

Anyway, she has gotten a few from the apps, but they mostly fizzle out after 1st or 2nd date. Its like the chemistry of face to face is more reliable. SOmething about the subconscious mind; who knows.

Good points, all. I would usually go to the bar with my wife, while we sized up the people in the bar. If you've found the right bar, guys will hit on your wife the minute you leave her there at the bar for any reason. Some of the guys will also hit on a couple, - we really liked those guys because we knew that they knew they'd be one of the m's in the mfm.

 

[Jamesdean73]

I would love for her to have a regular bull who can take good care of her, take her on vacation and what ever he desire

 

[TexasDaddy]

Long term arrangements with affection are better than hit it and quit it. Especially if her husband isn't doing it for her.

 

[calicolombia69]

I would love for her to have a regular bull who can take good care of her, take her on vacation and what ever he desire

MIne has had a few very decent ones who took her on long weekend trips. They give her the "boyfriend" experience ... they can walk around the country or beach town in the morning holding hands and embracing like a real couple. Back to the hotel for a mid-day quickie, etc. Mini vacations do give the affairs the romantic edge which any woman enjoys.

Mine also went on two extended trips but after a week, she was ready to come home. She is all for fucking 7 days straight, but she feels she has to get back to sanity and her own home and her small dick husband!

 

[Stevens4fun]

MIne has had a few very decent ones who took her on long weekend trips. They give her the "boyfriend" experience ... they can walk around the country or beach town in the morning holding hands and embracing like a real couple. Back to the hotel for a mid-day quickie, etc. Mini vacations do give the affairs the romantic edge which any woman enjoys.

Mine also went on two extended trips but after a week, she was ready to come home. She is all for fucking 7 days straight, but she feels she has to get back to sanity and her own home and her small dick husband!

My wife was always ready to come home after 3 or 4 days with him. They always had a good time, but it was also a lot of fucking and she was just worn out and ready for me to hold her again.

 

[calicolombia69]

My wife was always ready to come home after 3 or 4 days with him. They always had a good time, but it was also a lot of fucking and she was just worn out and ready for me to hold her again.

Oh mine never tires of the fucking! But she tires of them a individuals. I guess that for all my shortcomings, Im still king of my castle. Its just that as a husband, I know what she needs or feels before she even does herself. I know what time she likes her meals, or her favorite places or passtimes.

One lover had breakfast ordered before sex. She was so offended, she thought he didnt desire her. Another one was all for Mexican food just because she is Colombian. She actually hates Mexican food. Another one wanted to trek the local hills; she hates hiking; not to mention museums!

So, the wants them for good and intense sex; but for nothing else.