For us it was easy and from the start, we met at a swingers party, we were both swingles. I had a few female fuck buddys, she had many fuck friends she had sex with every day...the first time i told her 'i love you' is when she mounted my dick, her big cunt full of another mans fresh sperm. He always fucked her in the morning, before work, once a week. While she milked his cock with her pussy, riding him on top, i was waiting in the guest room. I was wanking and listening all he time she was fucking him! The moment she engulfed my cock with a vagina full of fresh sperm, i blurted out 'i love you'.
That was the beginning, we allways play together, and our relationship was like this from the start.