Just a note to the guys who have this kink: If you contact a guy who fucked your wife, PLEASE LEAD OFF WITH THE FACT THAT THIS IS A KINK THAT YOU ENJOY!!!
One time, either the day after I fucked this guy's wife or later that day, her husband texted me out of nowhere with a message like "Yasmin sucks cock really good, doesn't she?"
Needless to say, that freaked me the fuck out and made me really paranoid thinking that there was going to be a knock on my door.
Start by telling someone, or having your wife tell me, that you have a kink where you like to talk to the guy who's fucking your wife.