On a 3 day trip to DC for a convention, my Boss/Lover hustled me into a small jewelry store while walking around looking for a restaurant and boought me a small diamond ring!! He wanted me to wear it when we traveled to gether........we ended up extending that trip an additional WEEK because we were having so much fun and excitement!!
I showed it to my husband (he was aware of my affair by then) when we got home, and he bought me a pretty silver chain to wear it around my neck when at home. A couple months later, he asked me if I wanted to wear it all the time instead of our wedding ring....he said he saw me holding it and rubbing it all the time, so obviously I was constantly thinking about it, which was right. I would slip it on at work frequently and make sure my Boss/Lover saw I was wearing it there too.......so until our affair ended in 2020 due to covid, I wore my Boss/Lovers ring on my left hand ring finger, and my wedding ring on my right hand ring finger!! Was quite exciting. J (the remembering good times wife)