Cage question and ideas

It doesn’t hurt with the cage restricting your boner..?! I’m the wife and I figured it would be painful..
The cock gets to know its caged… boners will stop because it knows it’s caged - the first few days are the worst… just stick your dick under a running cold tap if it’s painful
 
Self locked. I have the China knockoff version of the Holy Trainer, latest version. I’ve had it for a year now, been locked almost every day for a year now. Or very close to it anyway. If I don’t have it on now, I feel incomplete and like I’m doing something wrong. Not happy until I get it back on.

Things that annoy me, sometimes the damn little thing slips out the cage, turtles. Sometimes I get a good headlock on it and it’ll stay just about all day - then pop… back it goes into my fupa. Chaffing, I’ve found a little baby oil gel once or twice a day helps stop ball bag binding and chaffing. Damn these testicles! I wear a nano and the stupid little pecker doesn’t always sit in it properly so I wet inside it sometimes.

Daily removal for cleaning (in my case) is a must, if not I’ve found myself with the beginning of a yeast infection. So I keep a tube of Monistat 7 just in case - I absolutely do not like having to go without my cage on. Shaving is almost a must, get one little hair caught and pulling the wrong way and I’m in public digging in my panties to free that. Hate shaving, hate the tiny bumps and sometimes ingrown hair, so a very close trim is usually all I do.

Not a fan, I don’t think, of a metal cage… I like my little pink plastic one. And I think a real deal version would be a better fit but maybe I’ll find out one day. I’m rambling, sorry… 😢
 
I used to wear a cage and my wife had a silver key on a necklace and proudly wore it, but these days I don’t need a cage as I’m permanently denied access to my wife ( her body is for others) I’m pussy free and that’s it, I often wank down the toilet thinking of what my wife has done in the past and what she’s got planned for the future, she says to me that my cock is pathetic and that I turn her off sexually, and she needs to be satisfied by younger men, I’m 57 she’s 58 and she likes men in their late 30s early 40s , I’m not even allowed to clean up these days and never allowed to watch 😩
 
I used to wear a cage and my wife had a silver key on a necklace and proudly wore it, but these days I don’t need a cage as I’m permanently denied access to my wife ( her body is for others) I’m pussy free and that’s it, I often wank down the toilet thinking of what my wife has done in the past and what she’s got planned for the future, she says to me that my cock is pathetic and that I turn her off sexually, and she needs to be satisfied by younger men, I’m 57 she’s 58 and she likes men in their late 30s early 40s , I’m not even allowed to clean up these days and never allowed to watch 😩
Why are you together if your totally denied everything it makes no sence of being togerher do.you gt to kissor touch each other i..any way
 
let her know it's just a time for her to be in charge and it's ok. Set a time period to sample it together. Let her know there's an out or end initially and let her see how long she wants or comes to want that role. let me know what you think or if you try and how it turns out.
 
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let her know it's just a time for her to be in charge and it's ok. Set a time period to sample it together. Let her know there's an out or end initially and let her see how long she wants or comes to want that role. let me know what you think or if you try and how it turns out.
Good advice, I’ll explain this to her and see how things go.
 
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