Cage question and ideas

I used to wear a cage and my wife had a silver key on a necklace and proudly wore it, but these days I don’t need a cage as I’m permanently denied access to my wife ( her body is for others) I’m pussy free and that’s it, I often wank down the toilet thinking of what my wife has done in the past and what she’s got planned for the future, she says to me that my cock is pathetic and that I turn her off sexually, and she needs to be satisfied by younger men, I’m 57 she’s 58 and she likes men in their late 30s early 40s , I’m not even allowed to clean up these days and never allowed to watch 😩
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