My wife is 13 years younger than me and very much a social butterfly and extravert. I am an introvert who doesn't like socialising much. She is in her early 20s, slim, brown and pretty. You can guess how this story has ended up... I found out a few weeks or so back that was cheating with someone from her work. It is classic red handed. I've found her message exchanges with him on social media and they've taken pics and vids together etc. I was annoyed at first but over time the annoyance is more about the fact it was behind my back and I don't know what the sex was like etc. I'm just constantly dreaming of what it would have been like to watch them for real. I'm very unconvinced that she'll be into being watched by me with another man. I'm wondering about starting with us being watched on cam and then I can naturally step it up each time? Has anyone done this with someone they didn't think would like being watched but in the end they got there?
