My ex had a couple of bulls that used to invite her to parties. Both doormen, both big and meaty in every department and both over 6' tall while she was just 4' 11" tall and weighed just 85Lb. Their party peice was spit roasting her with her feet off the floor, I never got to see this but she told me all about it when she got back. At the parties she said there were always a mix of guys, black, white even Asian but she preferred the 2 hosts