Speaking for myself, I don't think that size on its own is as important as most men want to believe it is. My husband is around 6" and is enough for me together with good moves and sensual touching. I cum most of the time. I have also had previous experiences with hung lovers that were absolutely disappointing.
Cock size comes up in sex talk when talking about past lovers, fantasies, BBCs etc and that does definitely add a certain electricity to our love making.
Do I miss bigger cocks? Sometimes- I prefer girth (if I had to choose), but I DO miss one size-related thing;
I am quite tall at 5'10' with long legs. In heels they are even longer. I would like to have the feeling again of being taken from behind, standing up and dominated, perhaps in a club or somewhere discreet, and feeling length and girth, slow at first, then harder. This has only happened when a guy is tall enough and hung enough to do that easily.
My husband is 5'9" and I have to bend legs, reach back and do all kinds of contortions in that position, whereas a couple of previous lovers only needed to walk up behind me, kiss my neck, lift my dress and slip easily and deeply inside me whilst still kissing me and whispering in my ear. This is so sexy and orgasm inducing that it really is the one thing I miss.
Is that bad?
I can (and do) live without it, but............. 😉💋