Would love to find a regular couple to help with the lifestyle in FL panhandle area.
Aim is to help both of you with the fantasy
Aim is to help both of you with the fantasy
Couples how do you find guys?
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For us, what's worked are usually Dance clubs, Pool Halls, Bars, Topless Clubs or Casinos. That's how we met all our Bulls.
Also, it helps if you dress a little provocatively for the guys. You'll get alot of 'rude' comments from jerks but the good guys will figure out what you're up to ;-)
Also, it helps if you dress a little provocatively for the guys. You'll get alot of 'rude' comments from jerks but the good guys will figure out what you're up to ;-)
I enjoy regulars but when I’m looking for different fetlife has been very successful and I’ve had good luck with tinder as well
Our experiences are limited but one was a guy that was a friend of ours, another one my wife met while out at a bar. She met with him a bit before dropping the "BTW I'm married bomb". Last one was a bull referred to us by a friend in the lifestyle. It seems we have stepped up a bit towards anonymity each time. By far the bull option was the cleanest "no strings" arrangement with absolutely no emotions/attachment issues.
Currently trying out dating sites, both standard and lifestyle. We always have the option of having our friend refer another bull to us but we are trying something on our own.
Currently trying out dating sites, both standard and lifestyle. We always have the option of having our friend refer another bull to us but we are trying something on our own.
We have used reddit in the past. Local r4r, swinger, and hotwife subreddits. Screen people out of there. We had one regular and three one nighters off of there. Otherwise we wouldn't know how to meet people.
Well back in the day befor the Internet my husband posted some photos of me and a swingers magazine.
Now I just meet them through friends of friends or a casual meet at a swingers club
Now I just meet them through friends of friends or a casual meet at a swingers club
Something about hanging at a hotel bar or at a bar near a hotel seems hot. Sure, maybe it is hit and miss. One posted mentioned that the guy they met was a jerk. The guy you meet at the hotel or near it might not be the best lover, bull, or packaged. Yet, there is something about the spontaneity and unknown of picking up a stranger at the bar that enhances the affair. The flirting and petting at the bar as the stranger and wife seduce each other is part of the eroticism. Of course, husband being there to encourage and approve is part of the eroticism. Meeting online or through a swingers club is cool, and probably has a higher probability of finding a compatible friend or friends to play with. On the other hand, this strategy seems so choreographed that maybe some of the adventure is lost. Anyway, whatever works and leads to fun and good sex for everyone involved is great. Do what works for you.
Randr7896
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My wife usually likes some sort of a connection with a guy that turns into a regular thing.
Over the years, there's been a friend, a couple guys from work and now a guy that flirted with her at a pool and got her number.
He's the strongest connection she's ever had and also the biggest cock.
Over the years, there's been a friend, a couple guys from work and now a guy that flirted with her at a pool and got her number.
He's the strongest connection she's ever had and also the biggest cock.
We have a few ways of finding guys for us.
Fabswingers has been our main source, from regular bulls to one off well hung guys.
Girls night out for casual sex with strangers, either sex outside the bar or going back to their house.
A few of our friends who have been a staple for many years.
And some of our bulls have arranged random guys or arranged sex parties and gang bangs.
Fabswingers has been our main source, from regular bulls to one off well hung guys.
Girls night out for casual sex with strangers, either sex outside the bar or going back to their house.
A few of our friends who have been a staple for many years.
And some of our bulls have arranged random guys or arranged sex parties and gang bangs.
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