It can play a role but it is not the one main thing that drives it and makes people to want it. Yeah, having small dick and being aware of it + not being a selfish person can lead to the idea of someone else satisfying your girlfriend or wife. However there are people here with quite good sized cocks which like it too, also I know selfish people with small cocks that will not allow their wife or girlfriend to have sex with another person, so it is more complex.
Yeah, I don’t think it’s a size thing. Not all that familiar with the complexities of terminology but I guess some guys distinguish between a cuck and a stag is whether they’re into humiliation and chastity, etc. Sharing her by way of my own urging and being able to enjoy the experience with her is something else completely, to me. It’s a mutual decision to explore and encourage her more intense, deeper-hidden desires and passion. I’m a bigger guy, 6’7” 240, fit. While my beautiful, Smokin hot little wife is a tiny girl. So, I always figured I was “filling her up” with all she could want or enjoy taking.
HA! I was wrong. 😉
After 20 years into our marriage of now 37 together, she got tipsy at a casino one night and shared out of the blue, that the biggest cock she’d ever had or even seen, hands down including porn, was a guy she had dated in high school before me and she told me who he was. The dude’s a legend for his exceptional endowment. She went on to tell me all about it, describing and showing me with her hands held up inadvertent near her mouth 😏. When she stood there and for the very first time told me about having been with him, her first time seeing (and taking) it. So fucking hot!
The guy’s LITERALLY 12” and about 8” around with an unusually even bigger head! NOTE: Her/our favorite bedroom toy is the closest to the same size and shape as his dick and we call it by his name.
I’m at least 6.5” length and about 5.5” in girth, she still is thoroughly satisfied with me and our sex lifestyle is amazing. But understanding that she can (and so in my opinion, she SHOULD enjoy more, something additional from time to time. The prospect is still obviously intimidating. There’s always the unknown but the MOST crucial aspect considered in our possible future experiences is that all contact, even communications must involve and include us both. No play outside the other’s presence and with our remaining mutual respect in our own decision. It’s the rush and absolute inexplicable hotness of the idea of actually sharing our most important, private and personal part of our lives. Wish you well