Curious to the hotwife in this lifestyle what type of person were you when growing up

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I was very responsible, driven and quite "OCD" about everything, including school work. I began a lifelong obsession with "fitness" at an early age, played tennis, had tennis instructors (who made me what I became sexually) and began training with weights and running/hiking. I was EXTREMELY sexually driven at an early age as well. I developed breasts early and had a fascination with sexual pleasure and masturbation and loved the sensation of anal stimulation. I had orgasms at a very young age. I discovered porn magazines my dad kept by the tons hidden out in the garage. I obsessed over the men and girls and as you've read in my stories, always wanted to have sex with girls. I was just very afraid that others in school would find out. I experimented with girls at an early age. I began making out and exploring with my friend Cher, who stayed over at my house and slept with me (innocent enough at that age, right?) frequently. I read "romance" novels at an early age and they turned me on. I was pretty much horny all the time. But then again, maybe most girls coming of age are as well.

My parents were gone quite a bit so my sister and i were left to explore sex with our neighbor friends Matt and Jay. You've read about them. With me, it was pretty much anal and oral with them but other things would happen along. My junior year of high school I started a relationship with Matt's late thirties year old father (Matt and Jay were off to college) and he was basically my secret "boyfriend" that year. I "allow" that it was him who officially took my virginity when I was 16, but...you know....

My senior year of high school I began working for one of my former tennis instructors (Steph's husband) doing billing for his doctor practice. There is WAY more to this story and that relationship began with his wife Steph (who was in her mid twenties and my initial tennis instructor). I really wish I could relate this story but I don't think I am allowed to do so on this forum. I can tell you that she "groomed" me from an early age as a "nymphet". She was only 14 when she had met her future doctor husband (Dr Bob) and was a nymphet as well. They eventually married and I had an affair with her husband my entire senior year of HS, with Steph's full knowledge. They had an "open relationship" and she had lots of boyfriends over. She "groomed" me to be a sexual "play thing" for her, her boyfriends and her husband. Don't get me wrong, I don't regret a minute of it, it's just that I can't tell any details of this situation (I don't think). I will reveal that unlike my stories have stated, Steph was very involved with me sexually when I was a nymphet as were her boyfriends and husband. Everything else about my stories with girls is pretty much true, but I hope it is ok with the mods to reveal this.

I really had no interest in dating guys my age or at my school. I also found my first "girlfriend" who I met at the gym. I owe her an apology for calling her "girlfriend" because she was very adamant that we were not "lesbians" (even though we had a sexual relationship) and she did as much as possible to discourage me from being too "sexual" with her. Daize (Daisy) was very instrumental in many ways and she slept over with me as a "friend" frequently. I will eventually tell the story of how my dad became very worried about what the two of us were doing! lol She was wise and she was concerned that I might start down a path toward becoming a lesbian and miserable if she promoted it. These were far different times than today but still, I would have fallen in love with her, I probably actually did so. She knew I was in to girls and her problem was that she was so attracted to me so completely that no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't stop sleeping with me. She did her best to do what I did with Cher, but in the end she would eat my pussy but not allow me to eat hers. But you know how that goes. Just like Cher, I did taste her quite a bit. Mostly I masturbated her with my fingers and kissed around her pubic area. She did whatever she wanted with me, and that was everything! We had a great time. She was college age, I was still in HS.

I was older than Dolores Haze, but not by much, when all of this started. I was like her in some ways too. This is probably too long and a bit convoluted for the topic, but it would be much clearer if I could have spoken freely from the start on this site, on my lifestyle sites and in my LSM articles. It's just difficult to say enough for people to read through the lines but not reveal that which is prohibited or frowned upon. My nymphet days pretty much came to a close soon after I started high school and playing with Matt and Jay.

I only had a few actual (more than just a nymphet plaything) sexual partners until I married my husband. He and I were very adventurous from the start and soon after we married, ( by "soon" I mean immediately after), I began cheating with other guys and did so constantly. I had told him on our wedding night that I would be faithful too him in every way except sexually, and that he was going to have to share my body with other men (in so many words). He accepted that but didn't think I really meant it at the time. He would soon find out that I did. I turned into an actual "slut" in the few months after my marriage and I have remained so the entire time. I was married and so confident in my sexual freedom at that point. Eventually he just sort of "figured out" that I was cheating and it eventually became an open secret and then accepted. We eventually entered the lifestyle with mixed results. I settled on "hotwifing" as our primary sexual dalliance these days.
You told him on your wedding night and not before?
 

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You told him on your wedding night and not before?
Yes, but we were always pretty adventurous but in one way he thought it was probably just another fantasy statement and in another he knew it was inevitable.
 

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Interesting topic. I enjoyed reading all the responses and found I share some common things. My husband said if I enjoyed other people's posts, I needed to post my own for others to connect with.

I grew up in a very strict Catholic home. Both my parents were very strict and warned me about boys and the risks of sex. I dressed conservatively and always was very shy. I had crushes on a few boys in school but never acted on any of them. I always envied all the pretty girls, the cheerleaders, and the popular girls, but never felt that I was pretty or popular.

I went out on a "date" when I was 14 with an older boy from school. He was a friend of my older brother, a senior and 18. My parents let me go to a school dance, but I had a ten o'clock curfew, and they thought this guy was safe since his parents said he would go to seminary and become a priest after graduating that year. He did go to seminary but dropped out quickly and never became a priest. He drove me home, and we sat out in his car. He was so sweet, telling me I was beautiful and he started making out with me. He was all over me and put my hand on his penis, which was huge. He had my bra unclasped and had his and up my dress touching me when my Mom came out and caught us. I was grounded for months afterward and had to go to confession and confess my experience.

I was a virgin when I met my husband and fell in love. I stayed at his apartment on the night I met him and fucked him several times. We took each other's virginity that night. I was 18, and he was 19. My parents were unhappy, but I soon moved in with him, and we have been together since.

I remained very shy and conservative acting until we were married for 26 years, and then my wild side came out and made up for all the lost time.
 

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Interesting topic. I enjoyed reading all the responses and found I share some common things. My husband said if I enjoyed other people's posts, I needed to post my own for others to connect with.

I grew up in a very strict Catholic home. Both my parents were very strict and warned me about boys and the risks of sex. I dressed conservatively and always was very shy. I had crushes on a few boys in school but never acted on any of them. I always envied all the pretty girls, the cheerleaders, and the popular girls, but never felt that I was pretty or popular.

I went out on a "date" when I was 14 with an older boy from school. He was a friend of my older brother, a senior and 18. My parents let me go to a school dance, but I had a ten o'clock curfew, and they thought this guy was safe since his parents said he would go to seminary and become a priest after graduating that year. He did go to seminary but dropped out quickly and never became a priest. He drove me home, and we sat out in his car. He was so sweet, telling me I was beautiful and he started making out with me. He was all over me and put my hand on his penis, which was huge. He had my bra unclasped and had his and up my dress touching me when my Mom came out and caught us. I was grounded for months afterward and had to go to confession and confess my experience.

I was a virgin when I met my husband and fell in love. I stayed at his apartment on the night I met him and fucked him several times. We took each other's virginity that night. I was 18, and he was 19. My parents were unhappy, but I soon moved in with him, and we have been together since.

I remained very shy and conservative acting until we were married for 26 years, and then my wild side came out and made up for all the lost time.
Thank you for your wonderful story I enjoyed it very much. I would love to read about your wild side comming out sometime if ever wish to indulge. I too grew up thru a Catholic school so I can identify quite a bit although a bit differently as I was a boy. I've heard it said that Catholic girls were the wildest of all but I never got to see much action since I was a shy sissy type who tended to be more like the girls than to persue them. Even though I was not gay I was attracted to girls but had no self confidence. My future wife was my next door neighbor and she was something else. She shaped me into who I am now. She gave me companionship and we kind of dated but made sure I knew I was different. Even though I wasn't considered a good catch and she was way out of my league I satisified some strong need she had to be dominant and even a bit sadistic. So it worked for us.
 
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I was pretty quiet growing up and didn't really have a lot of interest in guys. Where I grew up in the Philippines my mom was pretty much the area slut. She was very fuck active. She wasn't shy about it. As I got closer to collage age I guess she rubbed off on me. I sucked one her boyfriends the day I was leaving for collage. A year later I was a prostitute and being good at sucking and fucking got me to the States. Sometimes the quieter ones are the bottled up fuck toys just waiting ti get out.
 

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Well JMNBABE it looks like you are making up for lost time. I'm so happy for you. I assume that you are not shy anymore. If you wish to, please continue where you left off with your facinating story. I've known of cases where the wallflower in highschool turns into the beautiful butterfly later on and all the guys who once rejected her are like OMG I want her.
If you check my/our past postings, there is a lot about our life after my first affair, including my 3 year BBC exclusive period that almost destroyed my marriage.
I am still VERY shy around others and it requires the guys to come on to me for me to go along wiht a sexual relationship.....I don't handle rejection well and am afraid to approach someone if they don't approach me first (except here where its anonymous and I actually enjoy sexy chats with guys). SO guys, don;t be afraid to approach the quiet shy girl at the bar.....she just might be that wild crazt HOT babe in bed that loves to make sex good for YOU and doesn;t see herself as "doing you a favor" by letting you pick her up!! LOL

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If you check my/our past postings, there is a lot about our life after my first affair, including my 3 year BBC exclusive period that almost destroyed my marriage.
I am still VERY shy around others and it requires the guys to come on to me for me to go along wiht a sexual relationship.....I don't handle rejection well and am afraid to approach someone if they don't approach me first (except here where its anonymous and I actually enjoy sexy chats with guys). SO guys, don;t be afraid to approach the quiet shy girl at the bar.....she just might be that wild crazt HOT babe in bed that loves to make sex good for YOU and doesn;t see herself as "doing you a favor" by letting you pick her up!! LOL

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I was a very shy guy with no confidence (probably cuz I was so small). I could have asked out a lot of girls as I worked in food service in high school I met a lot of waitresses but I was too timid. Also my sister had many friends I could have gone out with but I was afraid that if they discovered how tiny I was they would reject me and blab to my sister and my friends. I was rejected for that reason with the few girls I did go with, fortunately they were polite and kept quiet.
 
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My wife was very conservative, but a very free thinker about sex and pleasure in her private life as a young girl. She told me that since she began puberty, some of her first thoughts were group sex when she was masturbating at 13. As she went into high school she wanted to be shared around with the hot guys. Consequently she was given a nickname buy the jealous girls in the school. She was called the “black hole”.
 

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I started my sex life with my brother when I was 16, after he deflowered me I was fucked by his friends and guys from high school even by nerds. Around the same time my best girlfriend was deflowered by her cousin.
Then we both got fucked by my brother and her brother and we became bisexual. Her father fucked me when I turned 18 and shortly after she followed also when she turned 18. A few years we were known as the neighborhood sluts, we use to fuck everyone and were gangbanged by several guys.
In college I became an escort, alongside colleagues I was fucked by some professors but I never bought my exams with my pussy. I enjoyed learning and in addition to my journalism degree I have some basic knowledge in astrophysics and quantum physics.
I met my first husband after college but we quickly broke up because he became impotent from drinking. After I started my career as a investigative journalist, I was still drifting towards escorting forced by circumstances and my bosses, practically still being a married woman.
After divorce I worked for a few years in a luxury brothel in Germany, Pink Pallace Sex House in Hamburg where I made a lot of money. The business was a bit more complicated having the mission to collaborate with the German authorities for investigating the traffic of teenagers from Romania to Germany.
At one point I was kidnapped by a crazy sadic old Nazi and raped by him and his dog after hours of BDSM style torture as his slave. That may be the source of my submissive and masochistic nature. After two months when the police had no more information from me, they found me in a mansion in Elmshorn, a small town near Hamburg. Finally I finished my report and went home.
After I came back to Romania I met my current husband and I focused more on hotwifing, prostitution was just a hobby, accepting money for what I do anyway for pleasure. We are now a group of friends made up of a few swingers couples and a few of my husband's friends that we meet and have orgies on the weekends. Only occasionally I fuck with strangers if I get picked up by attractive guys or I get an offer I can't refuse from various social networking sites.
That’s a beautiful story. You should write a book. It’s very rare you hear something like this. What was the sex with your brother like?
 
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Well JMNBABE it looks like you are making up for lost time. I'm so happy for you. I assume that you are not shy anymore. If you wish to, please continue where you left off with your facinating story. I've known of cases where the wallflower in highschool turns into the beautiful butterfly later on and all the guys who once rejected her are like OMG I want her.
Not a lot has changed actually.......I am still VERY shy and never approach a guy first (except during my 3 year BBC exclusive insanity). Once we have an established relationship, yeah they are AMAZED that the Boss is THIS sexy!! But if they don't show any interest initially, nothing ever happens.

My Boss/Lover and I, we wanted each other for 10 years before we FINALLY got together, and that took a night of serious drinking and celebrating some MAJOR decisions to save the company together and we woke up in the morning in bed together!! LOL It took a few moments to realize what we had FINALLY done....we started "apologizing, and oh my godding, we drank WAY too much", but neither of us was making any effort to get OUT of bed, LOL!! He finally said "truth be told , I am not the least BIT sorry and have wanted to do this for a LONG time"......I said "OMG, so have I!!!" and we spent the rest of the day in bed together!!

Lasted 11 years until he got very weird over COVID, refused to get vaccinated despite some pre-existing medical conditions that make it almost REQUIRED, and then started espousing the conspiracy theories of the REALLY confused.....

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Not a lot has changed actually.......I am still VERY shy and never approach a guy first (except during my 3 year BBC exclusive insanity). Once we have an established relationship, yeah they are AMAZED that the Boss is THIS sexy!! But if they don't show any interest initially, nothing ever happens.

My Boss/Lover and I, we wanted each other for 10 years before we FINALLY got together, and that took a night of serious drinking and celebrating some MAJOR decisions to save the company together and we woke up in the morning in bed together!! LOL It took a few moments to realize what we had FINALLY done....we started "apologizing, and oh my godding, we drank WAY too much", but neither of us was making any effort to get OUT of bed, LOL!! He finally said "truth be told , I am not the least BIT sorry and have wanted to do this for a LONG time"......I said "OMG, so have I!!!" and we spent the rest of the day in bed together!!

Lasted 11 years until he got very weird over COVID, refused to get vaccinated despite some pre-existing medical conditions that make it almost REQUIRED, and then started espousing the conspiracy theories of the REALLY confused.....

J (the wife)
Weird! Your boss/lover exposed his political/social incompatibility. This shows how lovers are best suited for “part time” companions and spouses are better lifetime partners. Funny to think you could completely enjoy being fucked senseless by your boss but hate watching the news with him.
 
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Thank you very much! Well, actually I wrote a book in eBook format and have all the stories on my personal blog. Unfortunately they are only in Romanian language but I think they can be read to some extent with Google translate. All I can tell you about sex with my brother it was amazingly wonderful.
I found the google translate pretty readable, for what it's worth.
 
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Not a lot has changed actually.......I am still VERY shy and never approach a guy first (except during my 3 year BBC exclusive insanity). Once we have an established relationship, yeah they are AMAZED that the Boss is THIS sexy!! But if they don't show any interest initially, nothing ever happens.

My Boss/Lover and I, we wanted each other for 10 years before we FINALLY got together, and that took a night of serious drinking and celebrating some MAJOR decisions to save the company together and we woke up in the morning in bed together!! LOL It took a few moments to realize what we had FINALLY done....we started "apologizing, and oh my godding, we drank WAY too much", but neither of us was making any effort to get OUT of bed, LOL!! He finally said "truth be told , I am not the least BIT sorry and have wanted to do this for a LONG time"......I said "OMG, so have I!!!" and we spent the rest of the day in bed together!!

Lasted 11 years until he got very weird over COVID, refused to get vaccinated despite some pre-existing medical conditions that make it almost REQUIRED, and then started espousing the conspiracy theories of the REALLY confused.....

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".... neither of us was making any effort to get out of bed" :ROFLMAO: HA HA. I love it! It's too bad about the Covid thing I'm sorry it ruined your relationship, that virus messed up a lot of lives besides killing a lot of folks. Just hang in there, you seem like a sweet lady being shy and all. I'm reminded of Adrian in the movie Rocky, how shy she was at first and how Rocky brought her out of her shell. I thought that was beautiful. :)
 

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Weird! Your boss/lover exposed his political/social incompatibility. This shows how lovers are best suited for “part time” companions and spouses are better lifetime partners. Funny to think you could completely enjoy being fucked senseless by your boss but hate watching the news with him.
I think you're right,lovers and ONS should stay on the shallow level. I guess that's what engagements are for when considering marriage, learn what each others politics are and how the other thinks then judge if the chemistry is right. I heard a woman once tell her husband that she was going to vote for the other guy just to cancel his vote. Guess they they weren't very good chemists.
 

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I was pretty quiet growing up and didn't really have a lot of interest in guys. Where I grew up in the Philippines my mom was pretty much the area slut. She was very fuck active. She wasn't shy about it. As I got closer to collage age I guess she rubbed off on me. I sucked one her boyfriends the day I was leaving for collage. A year later I was a prostitute and being good at sucking and fucking got me to the States. Sometimes the quieter ones are the bottled up fuck toys just waiting ti get out.
I love that it’s true
 
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