Thank you for your lovely comments. I’ve been a Submissive for 30+ years (though I’ve always been a slut with a sub side and I have no issue with admitting that), a path I discovered accidentally at first but which has developed and evolved over the years. Before I retired I had a very demanding job, I was in a position with quite a lot of authority a lot of responsibility. Being a Submissive was a total foil to that. Being able to hand over total control and responsibility to a bull/dom/owner (call it what you will) can be wonderfully liberating. That isn’t to downplay how demanding it can be both physically and emotionally, sometimes very demanding. And it is a very addictive path to go down when you get into it seriously - both the pain (psychological and well as physical) and the pleasure. And I am very lucky to have my amazing hubby who understands my needs and doesn’t feel threatened or undermined by them. He has his own kinks too which I’m sure helps him to understand mine. I don’t think it would work for a lot of people, at least not without putting a lot of strain on their relationship, but it works perfectly for us.
Lynn xx