Difficulty Cumming Without Cuckold Fantasies

This works both ways I'm sure to mention her FWB before we have sex. She get instantly wet and I'm pretty sure she is fantasizing about him for at least some of the time she is orgasming. It doesn't bother me in the least I'm happy she is having such a great sexual experience.
 
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I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.
Think about my Black Cock in your sexy wife
 
Not always true sometimes I'm just distracted but sometime true. Without saying it my wife knows this. This has led her to the most intense dirty talking to me. the things she will say to me or a guy when she wants the person to cum are extremely hot!
What did she say to you, just curious!!
 
I went through a short stretch with an ex where I was having issues getting turned on unless we had 3some porn on or we were talking about another being present with us
 
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Same thing happened to me. I could not cum or stay hard if I didn't think about her sucking a big cock while I watch. It became a "huge" problem for me. She knew it also. I didn't tell her but she knew. Even though we talked about her fucking and sucking her co worker with a 10 inch dick. I wanted her to suck and jerk him off at work.

But it began to get in the way of a normal lifestyle for me. All I thought about was her sucking big cocks. I had this big cock fascination. I wanted to suck cock with her. But, I didn't tell her, but I think she knew. Things didn't work out for us and I regret not being able to have sex with her and make her cum unless I thought about her with a 10 inch dick in her mouth.

She got turned off me always talking about her sucking other guys. She needed more love from me and I didn't have it for her. Mind you she was the biggest flit on the planet, she needed attention from every guy. It used to drive me nuts. So I finally got to the point to where I just went along with it knowing I could not give her all she needed. So, I guess it back fired on us both.

So be careful of this fantasy. It can backfire on you.
Sounds like you should have a long talk about whether to continue the marriage. Maybe, both of you would be happier finding partners who are more compatible with your needs and desires.
 
I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

We made this a great experience by meeting Bulls at bars, dance clubs, pool halls, casinos and even at topless bars. Got picked up by a handsome polite stranger and brought a friend to take pics to send to our hubbies or brought him home to fuck in front of hubby ;-)

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My wife and I were listening to a presentation from an insurance salesman she'd met somewhere - probably her work, and we were in our living room. She was interested in a threesome with him - we'd already discussed my little fetish which turned out to address one of her needs, so...... we agreed she'd let me know when she found the right guy. She asked the salesman to stay for a drink and gave me nonverbal signals he was the guy. As he fucked her, I could see from her response that there was a lot more than just sex going on in our bed. After he finished in her I quickly pulled her leg aside and moved to take her missionary, but I noticed I wasn't all the way hard. I was excited as all hell, but not all the way hard. With her help, I did manage to penetrate my wife and stiffened up as things went along. The finish was as it always is with immediate seconds with one's wife - intense, hot, and completely draining.

Afterwards, her new BF (soon to be lover) mentioned he'd seen I wasn't fully erect earlier, and told me that it sometimes happens to husbands whose wive's have regular BFs. As time went by and their relationship grew stronger my wife began having sex with him without me in the bedroom with them, and sometimes I'd be hard as hell knowing what was happening in our bed, but 50% of the time, I couldn't get hard enough to penetrate her. This went on for several years, but then (thankfully) my wife suggested I get some Cialis. I found it online without having to get an official prescription and things quickly improved - at the right times, my mojo was back!
 
I am kind of the same as the original poster. Except while I’m fucking the wife I imagine that I’m some other guy, or a bull and I’m sitting in a chair in the corner watching him fuck her good. That gets me off.
 
I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.
I to have the same problem and it only got more intense after we had our 1sf mfm I love seeing her sucking cock and being turned on by the two of us I love it