Do you believe you own your wife's pussy sexually or does one of her "previous loves" still own it because of the way he dominated her sexually?

Do you believe your wife's pussy is still owned by one of her ex's big cock

  • Yes, that's for certain

    Votes: 22 56.4%
  • Not sure he owns it, but he's still her go to for sex

    Votes: 7 17.9%
  • No, she's not like that

    Votes: 11 28.2%

  • Total voters
    39
Please don't take this the wrong way, I love and adore my husband in every way, but there has been a few of my previous lovers that were at least as good in bed as my husband is. One of these guys is by far and away a better or more compatible lover with me who has been my go-to guy for great sex for over 20 years and I'm now 40 years old. Way back when I first started dating this guy, he asked me who owned my pussy sexually and I enthusiastically admitted no guy has ever earned the right to own me sexually the way you have, so till I tell you differently my pussy is yours to use whenever you want it. He made the same commitment to me about his wonderful bigger the average size penis. Over time we drifted apart in our personal and professional likes and dislikes, but through thick and thin we have remained lovers to this day. To me my husband is by far and away a “better” man in every sense of the word except for his love making skills, the “Ex” as I call him her is the only guy that I’ve made love to that goes close to making me continually orgasm form the time he enters me till he pulls out. So, to this day my Ex still has the right to own and use my pussy sexually, even though my lovely husband in a way owns me through marriage.
I don’t believe any man can own a woman’s pussy! At least for me I own my pussy, not my husband, or a great lover, just me and it is mine to share as I desire.
 
  • Like
Reactions: semjabar
I hear you. My wife is mine, but weve invited her ex fuck buddy (from before we met) to join us, because he has a HUGE cock. This was 10½ years ago,and he is a regular of ours to this day. He just recently spent the weekend here with us, and clothes were not an option. She told me after the first time he joined us that she would've made it happen sooner but she was worried about my male ego and how I'd handle being naked next to him due to our size difference. Now we spend weekends together completely naked. She'll tease me and say "I guess we aren't worried about your male ego any more" lol
Most Ex's are ex's because of how they treat us AFTER sex or when we aren't having sex........and we tend to hang around longer than we should because the SEX is so great, which confuses us when no sex isn't so great. I hear women talk ALL the time about how GREAT their Ex was in bed, but he was an asshole the rest of the time.........so they make GREAT cuckold/Hot wife partners, we only have to do the GREAT part with them and not have to deal with the asshole part the rest of the time!! LOLLOL We get to enjoyt the GOOD part of them anytime we want, send them packing when done with that. How else do you describe the PERFECT relationship when you have a supportive husband that actually gets EXCITED when we do this???

J (the wife)
 
Great for fantasy but the real truth will always be that no one owns anybody. "Sexual ownership" is not a concept that is grounded in reality. I think people lose sight of the idea that the excitement of sex is fleeting and doesn't dominate the balance of time spent in a relationship. All of us spend less a lot more time NOT having sex than we do having it.

Naturally, that would give you lots more time for "thinking" about sex. Thinking about your wife or gf being owned sexually may be fun for a while (maybe a long while if done right) but eventually, if accepted, it becomes a routine normal thing, expected, anticipated. That's a standard evolution like conditioning. It's a new boring routine more likely to foster resentment than excitement.

I know there will be "cheerleaders" that will disagree. I know there will be outliers (statistical anomalies) that will deny this too. The truth is that if your wife/gf is "owned" by default you are owned too. The pitfall of ownership is the maintenance of the property. If you keep up the lawn but trash the inside of the house it only looks good from the outside looking in.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Catholic_Wife
Not a critique to anyone, just thinking about the question...

Well, wife's pussy belongs to me (husband), and one of main reasons is the fact that with me she can also have other men cocks as well - and frequently. And the game pleases us.

Fact is, she wouldn't be able to taste such LS with her previous partners, for example. A sexually lewd wife is locked-in with a husband that feels and plays the same game. She can be more free with that husband along.

We (couple) think it is quite odd that majority of cuckold couples seems to depict themselves always as some kind of deep rooted humiliation feelings to the husband's part. The husband is always quite bad in sex, has no libido, lack personality, lack exclusive sexual moments with wife, and are always in the mood to be left aside. Therefore, how could wife's attention would lean towards this husband anyway?

We respect everyone tastes, but it remais odd because the other cuckold couples we know in real are just people having fun with the roleplay and with the fact the wife is shared. But the couple still fuck and have great care for each other constantly, too.
 
  • Love
Reactions: coastalkid
fuerjade
airhorn is correct. Lots of girls lose their hymens during sport or other simple activities, even falling..

I do not nor does any other previous lover own my wife's pussy, it is solely hers. She decides who she will allow to use it, but it is always hers.