Just a series of thoughts,
Set up an ONLY FANS and post pics/videos of her showing off her titties and make it known she’ll schedule private video calls (using a separate cell phone number or utilizing an app to mask and hide her real phone number)
Many men would gladly tip her very well for the privilege and she can watch them and talk to them while they jerk off and cum for her
She can also schedule Live Shows in advance, letting followers know she’ll be online at a specific date/time for their viewing pleasure, with a number of men enjoying her showing off at the same time!
She can communicate through the app with individual men by DM, receive attention., compliments, suggestions and requests for private videos DM’d to them for their specific desires, how to dress, what they want to see etc
You can do quick internet searches to learn how to set up the account and the things she wants to do, and expand her offerings one step at a time
You can also set up an Amazon account, identify lingerie/shoes, toys etc she likes. Men will go onto the Amazon page through your link on OF, purchase those items to be shipped to you. Make sure you have them delivered to a local Amazon delivery box to pick up, hiding your address from their order
She doesn’t have to do all those things but may be willing to do more of them one step at a time
You can use OF as a tool to lean into both of your desires and keep her safe at the same time
Set up a couple social media accounts with sexy pics (non-explicit) using the same account name as her OF. Men will find her and she can grow a list of interested men subscribing to her account
The OF account can be free to access (or charge a monthly fee) and not display online nudity, keeping it locked down if she wants, responding only to DM requests for pics videos etc
You’re in control of what she does and doesn’t do “publicly” there
Again, all of this info is available searching online for successful options regarding how to use OF and how to set it up