Not at first. We mean initially we had a very common or more traditional kind of relationship. When we started to open up and do swing and seeing other couples, little by little wife opened up remembering (and talking) many things she had done in the past.
Today, when a spontaneous memory bursts up, it's really very pleasurable.
A few months ago we were having dinner at a restaurant in the small town where she was born and raised, and then she remembered that place had been abandoned and unused for a couple of years beforte it became a restaurant... and she used to date a guy who would park his car in the corner of that lot, among some trees, so they would have sex right there inside the car or out from it further down the lot.
It was still kind of surprising and risky despite all those years talking about places and people. Yes, we got turned on. Invariably trying to imagine what she must have looked like back in those nights, like in this photo which is from before we met.
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