Hello everyone,,
We initially had some family and friends find out about my wife having a lover/boyfriend. But not thru an internet site or social media. The first time my wife was caught was by her sister at a barbecue we were having and her boyfriend was there. At the time everyone just knew him as a friend of ours only. At this time they been lovers for about a year. So during the cookout my wife and her lover secretly left the party into the bedroom for a quickie. They forgot to lock the door and her sister walked in to see my wife bent over the bathroom sink with her lover fucking her from behind. My wife said she never knew her sister walked in and seen them because her sister quietly left and shut the door. But later that day confronted my wife about it so my wife spilled the beans and explained the entire relationship. Her sister didn't say much except if your husband is fine with it then I see no harm.
After she was caught my wife ... spanish lessons and I had a long talk about opening up more about her relationship and not worrying about what people see or may think. So that barbecue was over 2 years ago and everyone now knows about my wife having a lover except our kids (they don't live in the house anymore) and my father. My father is pretty old school and wouldn't understand. And all her lover's family knows her as his girlfriend and knows the situation.
Now their relationship has grown a lot over the past 2 years. He has taken her to his family functions, his work xmas parties, long weekends at the beach. My wife and I still do a lot together and go on vacations together and her boyfriend does respect our marriage in knowing we have to spend quality time together. The three of us do a lot of things together also. But when we all three go out together and it is a unspoken rule that during those times she is with him as a couple and I step back some. My wife over the past three years has learned how to juggle and spend quality time between him and I.
Sex is definitely different with her lover in the mix. It is VERY known between the three of us that her lover is ABSOLUTELY her primary lover and even our friends and family know it. It is without a doubt I am a cuckold. He makes love to her at least 4 to 5 times a week if not more. Her and I are very limited, condoms are a must and its once every few weeks. Now she does let me do other things, like go down on her after her lover came inside her, shows me her freshly fucked pussy while I jack off.
Now over the past three years I am not going to say there hasn't been some bumps along the way but we managed to work thru those times with open communication.
Has anyone else experienced family and friends knowing you and the wife are in the lifestyle?
We initially had some family and friends find out about my wife having a lover/boyfriend. But not thru an internet site or social media. The first time my wife was caught was by her sister at a barbecue we were having and her boyfriend was there. At the time everyone just knew him as a friend of ours only. At this time they been lovers for about a year. So during the cookout my wife and her lover secretly left the party into the bedroom for a quickie. They forgot to lock the door and her sister walked in to see my wife bent over the bathroom sink with her lover fucking her from behind. My wife said she never knew her sister walked in and seen them because her sister quietly left and shut the door. But later that day confronted my wife about it so my wife spilled the beans and explained the entire relationship. Her sister didn't say much except if your husband is fine with it then I see no harm.
After she was caught my wife ... spanish lessons and I had a long talk about opening up more about her relationship and not worrying about what people see or may think. So that barbecue was over 2 years ago and everyone now knows about my wife having a lover except our kids (they don't live in the house anymore) and my father. My father is pretty old school and wouldn't understand. And all her lover's family knows her as his girlfriend and knows the situation.
Now their relationship has grown a lot over the past 2 years. He has taken her to his family functions, his work xmas parties, long weekends at the beach. My wife and I still do a lot together and go on vacations together and her boyfriend does respect our marriage in knowing we have to spend quality time together. The three of us do a lot of things together also. But when we all three go out together and it is a unspoken rule that during those times she is with him as a couple and I step back some. My wife over the past three years has learned how to juggle and spend quality time between him and I.
Sex is definitely different with her lover in the mix. It is VERY known between the three of us that her lover is ABSOLUTELY her primary lover and even our friends and family know it. It is without a doubt I am a cuckold. He makes love to her at least 4 to 5 times a week if not more. Her and I are very limited, condoms are a must and its once every few weeks. Now she does let me do other things, like go down on her after her lover came inside her, shows me her freshly fucked pussy while I jack off.
Now over the past three years I am not going to say there hasn't been some bumps along the way but we managed to work thru those times with open communication.
Has anyone else experienced family and friends knowing you and the wife are in the lifestyle?
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