I can attest that this is certainly not easy
Right now I tried DL and have the typical bs responses but one possibility
When we tried the theater fun I told some of them make the trip out towards us I’ll cover room and heck offered to pay for fuel and no luck
At least at the theater it’s like we all know why we’re there. The online stuff it’s like you’d swear they are planning to move in and start some romantic relationship lol
Then of course you have got to watch out for homewreakers both m and f we had issues with.
It does make it stressful but when/if you find one it could be fun.
Whodda thunk asking for some clean and non smoker or druggie would be such an ordeal
Perhaps it’s just our luck who knows
So your main question…. Extremely hard and painful for us