First time anal

Hi!
I have a new gf now. I really want to do anal sex and she wants to try it too. She even told me that she would use a vibrator for her pussy when I am inside her ass.
The thing is I really don't want to give her any pain, so we can do it again. If it hurts, she might say no for the next time.
We hopefully can do even a double penetration maybe in the future. 😉
Anybody knows what is the best position, or is there any other tricks to do it with minimum pain?
When we do normal sex i always put a finger in her ass. But it is always so tight, I never put the second finger. Should I do it? How should it has been done?
Please help
 
Hi!
I have a new gf now. I really want to do anal sex and she wants to try it too. She even told me that she would use a vibrator for her pussy when I am inside her ass.
The thing is I really don't want to give her any pain, so we can do it again. If it hurts, she might say no for the next time.
We hopefully can do even a double penetration maybe in the future. 😉
Anybody knows what is the best position, or is there any other tricks to do it with minimum pain?
When we do normal sex i always put a finger in her ass. But it is always so tight, I never put the second finger. Should I do it? How should it has been done?
Please help
My wife has always loved anal, she started enjoying it back when she was only 19, I've always loved anal and before my wife I had several girlfriends that enjoyed it too, I've learned a few things about anal throughout the years , first and most importantly use a lot of lube especially if it's her first time, try doing it on your side go slow and take your time, it's best to do it after you've made her cum a couple of times and she's wet and aroused, be patient and go slow once she gets used to it and starts enjoying it it'll be amazing, my wife cums really hard when I fuck her ass.
 
Get her relaxed. Use loads of lube. Start with smaller toys and work your way up to your cock.

My ex screamed at me for even placing a thumb on her ass...three years later she was having anal orgasms.

So take it slow. And lots of lube. If she says stop, STOP. Don't push it!

Why not YOU try it with toys - that will give you an idea what it will be like for her.
 
My wife has always loved anal, she started enjoying it back when she was only 19, I've always loved anal and before my wife I had several girlfriends that enjoyed it too, I've learned a few things about anal throughout the years , first and most importantly use a lot of lube especially if it's her first time, try doing it on your side go slow and take your time, it's best to do it after you've made her cum a couple of times and she's wet and aroused, be patient and go slow once she gets used to it and starts enjoying it it'll be amazing, my wife cums really hard when I fuck her ass.
This is great advice!
 
Get her relaxed. Use loads of lube. Start with smaller toys and work your way up to your cock.

My ex screamed at me for even placing a thumb on her ass...three years later she was having anal orgasms.

So take it slow. And lots of lube. If she says stop, STOP. Don't push it!

Why not YOU try it with toys - that will give you an idea what it will be like for her.
You’re so right! For most women, it’s baby steps with anal. Let her know she’s in control, and if she says stop, even if you only have a finger tip in, you stop. And this is really important. You praise her for getting that far. Repeat that process, and most women will chase the praise and do more for you each time because of it. Eventually, you will be having anal, and she will enjoy it. Anal is chess, not checkers, unless you happen upon a girl that’s just into it, and they definitely exist.
 
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Make sure she cums a lot before you move to an Anal if she’s not used to it. She’ll be ready to go and loosened up and relaxed if she’s cum before. Use a lot of lube, too much is just enough. Her on her side with her top leg bent and pulled out with her using a vibrator on her clit will help. You enter from behind. The sideways position with the knee up makes it easier to enter and helps open her ass. The clit stimulation will help her to fell good as you start slowly entering her. Work your way up to balls deep slowly then build up speed if she’s good. Since she’s starting out pay attention to her feedback so that she’s more inclined to do it next time.

Cumming deep in her ass as she’s cumming is such a thrill!