First time question

It’s honestly totally different of probably every other couple. Some may start with just sexting. Another maybe just oral. Another may just go all in the first time. Each situation is different. It depends on the lady herself and more so the comfort level she has with the other guy.
 
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As a bull I find that if hubby just get out of the way and let his wife seduce or be seduced he would have a much better outcome let nature take its course just get them together and get out of the way
 
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As a bull I find that if hubby just get out of the way and let his wife seduce or be seduced he would have a much better outcome let nature take its course just get them together and get out of the way

how to let others seduce my gf since she doesnt like me to talk about cuckold. i want naturally
 
Well she has to be on the same page to do this I would start with reading stories and watching porn on the subject it might take awhile and you should talk about it when your having sex tell her how much it turns you on take it slow and you will get there.
 
She has kind of lost interest in porn. She used to like it but finds it fake now. She likes reading hot stuff. I can send her explicit text and have her horny and wet as hell.
 
Then my friend get busy keep her wet by telling her your fantasy about watching her and how sexy she is when she is having sex. But do this when your having sex so that she will start to see herself in your fantasy.
 
She was in a slutty sundress and commando this afternoon before and after I fucked her brains out. She has promised me commando or I suck and Swallow panties in Florida. I am going to keep my phone off for the most part in Florida but may use my computer to write her hot emails. I talk to her all the time about fucking other men when we have sex. Even though she has said it ain't going to happen she has gotten horny and cum withing a very short time of me saying it. That kind of betrays her true feelings. She finds it hot and has given me a soft promise to go for it in Florida.
 
My wife starts by walking up to different men and just flirting, while i watch from afar. When we go to clubs or pretty much anywhere now, she just goes to flirting, either bends over where men can see her, or has a nip slip, pulls up her skirt while wearing no panties, etc.
 
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We started out as a dating couple - after we were "steady" for about a year, I was away working, and my then girlfriend, now wife cheated on me - it was full on sex, with another guy in a car that she went on a date with in my absence. She cheated on me on, and off over the next five years, all full-on sex, no just teasing around with blowjobs or handjobs.

She cheated on me at least six times after we were married - also full sexual encounters. After our first "open" hot wife encounter (unplanned), which was full sex, she farted around with blowjobs and handjobs for a while, because of guilt feelings. That passed in less than a year.
 
Wife and I have our fantasy list bout 12 fantasies.
We have our top five: FFM threesome, Stranger (Me playing) Romantic/tantric sex, Role-playing (doctor/Sexy nurse or other ones), Swinging (swap).
We also had regular MFM THREESOME which was my #8 & was her #10 also watching her with another man my list #11 her's #9. Then I Have heard about Cuckholding and I listened to a story about a swinger couple, the guy said once in a while they do threesome's at this one moment he let the guy start out and saw his wife really getting off and he was mesmerized how turned on he was, he just kept watching and was so Hard (short version) he and his wife did swaps but he would only look over to her to make sure she was okay and go on with his business with the other wife.
I told my wife that story she really enjoyed that story and later I mentioned let's do a Cuckhold Threesome (we can do both fantasies at same time me watching her and Threesome). I said it's way better and it's design to pleasure you and you make All the Rules and in charge completely. Then I said it's like a Two-Sum then 3-some back and forth. I told her I was intrigued and wanted her to start with other guy first for like 15 to 30 mins. I Mentioned I would come in at 15 minute mark but if she wanted more time with other guy I'd wait whole 30m time but she could signal me in anytime & not bother her if I saw her in the Zone bout to Leave Orgasm. I would be patient & wait for her signal me only.
I really played it in my mind band & I got so Completely Turned ON and hope that when this happens that the guy was so good and made her realize I wasn't there so I could watch a lot longer and see her completely into him.
Her Rules are (1) No Heavy Passionate Kissing (light short kisses ok). (2) 2 positions off limits Missionary & Wheelbarrow (her favorite's w/ me)
(3) No Anal and lastly ( guy no smaller than 5" and no bigger than 6½") however if he's under 7" I'm sure that would be ok. Girth anywhere from Average to 5¾".

Would like anyone's Perspective? Any advice or pointers