This. I know this feeling for sure. I do not want to or get into it unless I’m dressed up, at least my boobs and hair. I’m self caged, so definitely not getting “hard” while doing it.I don't get hard or cum myself while sucking. There is something about sucking to completion that is its own reward. Turns me on enormously.
But… I too get turned on so much, I precum like a bubbling fountain while sucking cock. It dribbles and drips from my cage the entire time. It is a wonderful and rewarding feeling sucking a guy and making him cum. I’m controlling him, his erection, his ejaculation… I’m doing for him what his wife won’t do. Awesome feeling of being in control and having that power, plus it makes me feel more like the woman I feel I am inside.