From one wife to another wife

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My husband and I have been together for a couple of years now. Both have been in previous marriages in the past with not so good sex lives. Since weve been together our sex life is simply amazing. We connect so well and find our marriage is incredibly strong. In the last few months since coming on this site we have been starting to explore other options. We are very open minded as a couple and so far we have went from talking about him sharing me online in the last few months. I was nervous at first because Ive never even considered doing this with someone I love so much. But as the talking went along the more we explored websites where I could go online. So far Ive created a profile on a ... site and have done shows and prvt shows where hes in the room watching me or Im doing a prvt with a man. He even loves showing pics of me on here and with friends. Im totally comfortable and Ok with doing these things for us.

But now we are starting to talk about and fantasize about him sharing me real-time with another man. Where hed be in the room watching me being pleased. The idea sets us both off. We think its hot and very desirable. Ive read many men on here that wanted their wives to do this for him and how much it turn him on etc. But ive not heard anything from the woman on here. Someone that was like me, a bundle of nerves, concerns, uncertainty for herself. I know my husband is comfortable sharing me like this in this new lifestyle and Ive communicated with him on my fears, thoughts and concerns. But Im wanting a womans point of view on how you calmed yourself to get away from the mental fantasy and moved to the real in person fulfillment of this fanstasy? Id love to talk to a wife or gf that was new going into this and even though your relationship is strong emotionally and mentally even physically but how did you relax your fears, concerns going into having your first time experience that you weren't regretting or having concerns afterwards. Id love to hear your side of this. Might help me mostly going forward to seeking out and planning our first time and him fully enjoying me being relaxed and at ease for wanting to take the next step.
Thank you so much..
The Wife
 
I felt much the same as you but now that we've began this lifestyle I REALLY wish we began years ago. The differences between us is I cuckold my husband and cage his cock.

My advice is drink a little alcohol before you meet your first bull and again when he fucks you for the first time. Meet at a hotel and above all view your bull as nothing more than a sex toy for you to use for your pleasure.
 
I felt much the same as you but now that we've began this lifestyle I REALLY wish we began years ago. The differences between us is I cuckold my husband and cage his cock.

My advice is drink a little alcohol before you meet your first bull and again when he fucks you for the first time. Meet at a hotel and above all view your bull as nothing more than a sex toy for you to use for your pleasure.
Thank you for this information..certainly helps alot to hear a womans point of view. Im not a big drinker but i guess a glass of wine or two would help me relax more for me. He doesnt plan at this point to join in its more for him. But i can see after we vet someone and set it up if i was relaxed a bit but not sloppy drunk. Thank you so much.
 
You're very welcome. Don't drink much. Just enough to slightly ease your inhibitions. For some women I'm told that if there in some form of bondage to where they can't resist that they can give themselves permission to enjoy their time with a new cock.
Yes i told my husband that I love being blindfolded.. and felt that might help out a lot if i turned off the visual part of me that i wont take time to see him in the room and get myself to start freaking out or getting nervous. We want to try this once to see if this is even something we want to do. But yes ill take that drinking part in mind.. just sip something but not get overly buzzed.
 
I suppose I'm at a crossroads like you.
My marriage of 20 years is very loving, solid, and up until recently, phenomenal sex.
A couple years ago, my husband had surgery to remove a large tumor in his lower abdomen, and subsequently scar tissue built up below that hinders blood flow and urinary functions. Some scar tissue was removed later, but some remains, causing problems with maintaining election.
This is devastating for him, as a man and lover. There are times it works just fine, especially after sleep or rest, but other times during the regular course of the day it won't. I never blamed him, nor did I have any desire to find another lover.
However, it is him who insists I do, and after some pushback, I reluctantly agreed to look around.
Its been about a month now, me online, not sure what to do, but the attention, and the propositions are pretty nice, and I began to reconsider that maybe this is an opportunity to take, and here we are, lol.
Best of luck in your endeavors.
Thank you for your story and amazing lady you are to stand strong by your man as I would do the same. I have to say Ive gotten alot of hints by my guy but nothing pushing or demanding. We simply just fantasied about him watching me with another. So far ive gotten some good comments and requests but nothing that we are ready to step up and follow through with. Even a good close friend of his was an option but has since then been put on the backburner. Baby steps is the best we can do until I find a way to calm myself and relax the idea of fears and concerns out of my head. I love my husband dearly..nothing I wouldnt do for him. But I know hes not bothered by the option of watching me with another man..this is mainly me.
Thank you again and best of luck in your search as well.
 
My suggestion is join sls.com and add a few tasteful nudes and be very upfront with what you want. Set limits and meet for dinner and then make your choice or choices.

You'll get a few flakes but in the end you'll find the right match or matches. Please keep us informed.
Thank you for the site recommendation. Ill look them up and see what i get.
 
Thank you for responding :)
I believe my husband has zero interest in being a cuckold, or some need to watch me with someone else. Deep down it would kill him, especially of a man who is not in the penis department, in fact he hovers around 8", and accustomed to providing great sex to me,, that doesn't do much if his circulation is hindered.
We are hoping doctors can fix the problem.
Anyway, best of luck to you too. :)
If you find a man who is bigger than him then I really think he will enjoy watching you take it, even if he says he doesn’t. Especially if you seem really into it and make it solely about size.

Obviously the hottest thing you can do is make him sit outside and listen.
 
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I felt much the same as you but now that we've began this lifestyle I REALLY wish we began years ago. The differences between us is I cuckold my husband and cage his cock.

My advice is drink a little alcohol before you meet your first bull and again when he fucks you for the first time. Meet at a hotel and above all view your bull as nothing more than a sex toy for you to use for your pleasure.
As a man who has been with wives, this piece of advice about lovers as sex toys is a crucial understanding. More so if the hotwifing/cuckolding experience is to enhance your marriage. The needs to be understood that the marriage is primary and a ton of love and communication is the basis of the marriage. The lovers can be good friends and fuck buddies but unless you want a poly relationship; its never the primary.
 
My husband and I have been together for a couple of years now. Both have been in previous marriages in the past with not so good sex lives. Since weve been together our sex life is simply amazing. We connect so well and find our marriage is incredibly strong. In the last few months since coming on this site we have been starting to explore other options. We are very open minded as a couple and so far we have went from talking about him sharing me online in the last few months. I was nervous at first because Ive never even considered doing this with someone I love so much. But as the talking went along the more we explored websites where I could go online. So far Ive created a profile on a ... site and have done shows and prvt shows where hes in the room watching me or Im doing a prvt with a man. He even loves showing pics of me on here and with friends. Im totally comfortable and Ok with doing these things for us.

But now we are starting to talk about and fantasize about him sharing me real-time with another man. Where hed be in the room watching me being pleased. The idea sets us both off. We think its hot and very desirable. Ive read many men on here that wanted their wives to do this for him and how much it turn him on etc. But ive not heard anything from the woman on here. Someone that was like me, a bundle of nerves, concerns, uncertainty for herself. I know my husband is comfortable sharing me like this in this new lifestyle and Ive communicated with him on my fears, thoughts and concerns. But Im wanting a womans point of view on how you calmed yourself to get away from the mental fantasy and moved to the real in person fulfillment of this fanstasy? Id love to talk to a wife or gf that was new going into this and even though your relationship is strong emotionally and mentally even physically but how did you relax your fears, concerns going into having your first time experience that you weren't regretting or having concerns afterwards. Id love to hear your side of this. Might help me mostly going forward to seeking out and planning our first time and him fully enjoying me being relaxed and at ease for wanting to take the next step.
Thank you so much..
The Wife
Wish you all the best and remember you being so yummy answer sexy sure makes it easy for a guy to get his dick hard to want to fuck you the way you want it so love that thought baby
 
It's so nice to hear a woman to woman perspective on this. I wish my wife would talk to a friend about her reluctance to doing this. I've tried to get her to take a look at this board but she's very leery of any porn-related sites.
If shes leery you can tell her we can talk prvty on here or via email if you think it would help. It would help me out tons as well. Send me a prvt message and we can exchange contact info.
 
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It's so nice to hear a woman to woman perspective on this. I wish my wife would talk to a friend about her reluctance to doing this. I've tried to get her to take a look at this board but she's very leery of any porn-related sites.
Thank you for responding :)
I believe my husband has zero interest in being a cuckold, or some need to watch me with someone else. Deep down it would kill him, especially of a man who is blessed in the penis department, in fact he hovers around 8", and accustomed to providing great sex to me,, that doesn't do much if his circulation is hindered.
We are hoping doctors can fix the problem.
Anyway, best of luck to you too. :)
Such a hot yummy body baby
 
If shes leery you can tell her we can talk prvty on here or via email if you think it would help. It would help me out tons as well. Send me a prvt message and we can exchange contact info.
I'll talk to her. It will take a while as she is consumed with work right now. (12-14 hour days for the next 10 days) and then a suitable time for her to decompress and for us to reconnect.
 
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