My husband and I have been together for a couple of years now. Both have been in previous marriages in the past with not so good sex lives. Since weve been together our sex life is simply amazing. We connect so well and find our marriage is incredibly strong. In the last few months since coming on this site we have been starting to explore other options. We are very open minded as a couple and so far we have went from talking about him sharing me online in the last few months. I was nervous at first because Ive never even considered doing this with someone I love so much. But as the talking went along the more we explored websites where I could go online. So far Ive created a profile on a ... site and have done shows and prvt shows where hes in the room watching me or Im doing a prvt with a man. He even loves showing pics of me on here and with friends. Im totally comfortable and Ok with doing these things for us.
But now we are starting to talk about and fantasize about him sharing me real-time with another man. Where hed be in the room watching me being pleased. The idea sets us both off. We think its hot and very desirable. Ive read many men on here that wanted their wives to do this for him and how much it turn him on etc. But ive not heard anything from the woman on here. Someone that was like me, a bundle of nerves, concerns, uncertainty for herself. I know my husband is comfortable sharing me like this in this new lifestyle and Ive communicated with him on my fears, thoughts and concerns. But Im wanting a womans point of view on how you calmed yourself to get away from the mental fantasy and moved to the real in person fulfillment of this fanstasy? Id love to talk to a wife or gf that was new going into this and even though your relationship is strong emotionally and mentally even physically but how did you relax your fears, concerns going into having your first time experience that you weren't regretting or having concerns afterwards. Id love to hear your side of this. Might help me mostly going forward to seeking out and planning our first time and him fully enjoying me being relaxed and at ease for wanting to take the next step.
Thank you so much..
The Wife
But now we are starting to talk about and fantasize about him sharing me real-time with another man. Where hed be in the room watching me being pleased. The idea sets us both off. We think its hot and very desirable. Ive read many men on here that wanted their wives to do this for him and how much it turn him on etc. But ive not heard anything from the woman on here. Someone that was like me, a bundle of nerves, concerns, uncertainty for herself. I know my husband is comfortable sharing me like this in this new lifestyle and Ive communicated with him on my fears, thoughts and concerns. But Im wanting a womans point of view on how you calmed yourself to get away from the mental fantasy and moved to the real in person fulfillment of this fanstasy? Id love to talk to a wife or gf that was new going into this and even though your relationship is strong emotionally and mentally even physically but how did you relax your fears, concerns going into having your first time experience that you weren't regretting or having concerns afterwards. Id love to hear your side of this. Might help me mostly going forward to seeking out and planning our first time and him fully enjoying me being relaxed and at ease for wanting to take the next step.
Thank you so much..
The Wife