Girlfriend advice for next steps

[Migueel]

GF roleplay or she wants it? Help!

M(25) here, been in a 6 years relationship with GF(25), she was my 1st sexual experience, but she already had 3 sexual experiences, we met in uni and been together ever since and we always had amazing communication between us and no serious fighting or arguing.

I introduced her to my fantasies of cuckolding/interracial play around 2 years ago, we have like 6/7 black dildos that she uses every week and roleplays with, we started with getting some small toys and eventually moved to some bigger ones (currently using Jason Luv dildo), and start gradually watching interracial/cuckold porn and now we do it at least once/twice a week.

6 months ago we went on a 4 day vacation and she was talking a lot about finding a guy to do a threesome but close to the date she quit that idea and told that it was better to wait a little bit more.



During sex, when we watching porn she always fucks her toy, and likes to dirty talk to me, saying how much she love big cocks and how he's way bigger than me and when I fuck her after she says that she can barely feel my dick because its so stretched from that black cock.

Lately she been really vocal about wanting to get fucked by a big black cock, and how I can't touch her I can only watch, and how much she wants to feel a big cock inside of her, and telling me I can only fuck her after and that I will need to clean to cum off her pussy.

She also likes to turn herself to me and fuck herself with her black dildo, and telling me if I like to watch her little pussy getting stretched by another guy.



My doubt is we only talk about this during the sex, the last 2/3 times we fucked, I asked her in the eyes multiple times if she really wants a big cock, and if she would like me to find a black guy to fuck her, and if shes really interested in getting fucked in front of me, and she says Yes , with a lot of confidence.



We are not only boyfriend/girlfriend but we're also best friends, and we always had an amazing relationship and everything seems perfect. So I want to make sure of the signals she sents me. She says that with me it's the first time she feels really loved and cared, and that she can be herself with me without being afraid of the judgment of other people.



Help a friend out!

 

[penc1ld1kt]

It sounds a lot like she's keen for it and trusts you completely. If you're not certain maybe have a conversation outside the bedroom to ensure you're both on the same page.

 

[Migueel]

It sounds a lot like she's keen for it and trusts you completely. If you're not certain maybe have a conversation outside the bedroom to ensure you're both on the same page.

Yeah, I'm going to try to have a night out at a hotel with her and ask her if she wants to take that next step of finding a bull to come fuck her

 

[Jeanswatcher]

Be awared, fantasy play is a lot different to her actually doing this, then you find she actually rather likes it and enjoys different experiences. You may also find that she gains a real liking for a man with real experience and overtime looses respect for you for wanting/accepting her playing around. Then you become simply her best friend as she expands her sexual desires elsewhere or worse, so many men here write about the "ex".

Excellent sex is a very emotional activity for a female.

Could you cope with this mentally knowing you were no longer her lover of choice? or she wanted him or other lovers more than you? and your part in these plays deminished over time?

I am not trying to poor cold water on your idea, i write from experience, we started (she had an affair) when we were younger than you two, were married when she was 18, she has said i was probably always destined to be her cuck husband however we are still together and deeply in love 30 years later.

She did loose respect for me as a masculine sexual man in accepting her plays and like you i had little experience. Once she had tried another cock attached to a very experienced lover i basically became surplus to my young wifes sexual desires and needs.

In accepting and enjoying my role as her cuck she then commenced semi feminizing me, fitment of a CB, female underwear and painting my toe nails etc, this ensured i could not play away so she could have her cake and eat it and control my sexuality and yes i enjoy this.

So my wife changed overtime and i remained her best friend but not her lover, more like a brother or sister to MY own wife.

On a positive note, we are the only ones we know that have remained happily married over so many years, walk together holding hands, kissing regularly etc.

Friends have asked whats the formular to a happy marriage, i dare not say, other than being open and honest with each other and a shared interest as i stand collared, in ladies knickers, CB and often wearing womens jeans.

I wonder too having practiced this LS for many years how many men blindly think they can control a womens desires, wanting her to take lovers, then find they are left behind and how many successfully do so and remain together long term.

Good luck.

 

[Migueel]

Be awared, fantasy play is a lot different to her actually doing this, then you find she actually rather likes it and enjoys different experiences. You may also find that she gains a real liking for a man with real experience and overtime looses respect for you for wanting/accepting her playing around. Then you become simply her best friend as she expands her sexual desires elsewhere or worse, so many men here write about the "ex".

Excellent sex is a very emotional activity for a female.

Could you cope with this mentally knowing you were no longer her lover of choice? or she wanted him or other lovers more than you? and your part in these plays deminished over time?

I am not trying to poor cold water on your idea, i write from experience, we started (she had an affair) when we were younger than you two, were married when she was 18, she has said i was probably always destined to be her cuck husband however we are still together and deeply in love 30 years later.

She did loose respect for me as a masculine sexual man in accepting her plays and like you i had little experience. Once she had tried another cock attached to a very experienced lover i basically became surplus to my young wifes sexual desires and needs.

In accepting and enjoying my role as her cuck she then commenced semi feminizing me, fitment of a CB, female underwear and painting my toe nails etc, this ensured i could not play away so she could have her cake and eat it and control my sexuality and yes i enjoy this.

So my wife changed overtime and i remained her best friend but not her lover, more like a brother or sister to MY own wife.

On a positive note, we are the only ones we know that have remained happily married over so many years, walk together holding hands, kissing regularly etc.

Friends have asked whats the formular to a happy marriage, i dare not say, other than being open and honest with each other and a shared interest as i stand collared, in ladies knickers, CB and often wearing womens jeans.

I wonder too having practiced this LS for many years how many men blindly think they can control a womens desires, wanting her to take lovers, then find they are left behind and how many successfully do so and remain together long term.

Good luck.

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me, I mean we are always communicating about what we want, we have been together for 6y and it's been an amazing journey, for the first time in life me and her found someone that we can trust everything, our fantasies, our insecurities, our desires, without being afraid of the judgment from another person.
We just feel like soulmates that were made for each other, and I really believe that when we decide if we decide, to take the next step, she will still love me so much!

 

[HotAsianwife]

GF roleplay or she wants it? Help!

M(25) here, been in a 6 years relationship with GF(25), she was my 1st sexual experience, but she already had 3 sexual experiences, we met in uni and been together ever since and we always had amazing communication between us and no serious fighting or arguing.

I introduced her to my fantasies of cuckolding/interracial play around 2 years ago, we have like 6/7 black dildos that she uses every week and roleplays with, we started with getting some small toys and eventually moved to some bigger ones (currently using Jason Luv dildo), and start gradually watching interracial/cuckold porn and now we do it at least once/twice a week.

6 months ago we went on a 4 day vacation and she was talking a lot about finding a guy to do a threesome but close to the date she quit that idea and told that it was better to wait a little bit more.



During sex, when we watching porn she always fucks her toy, and likes to dirty talk to me, saying how much she love big cocks and how he's way bigger than me and when I fuck her after she says that she can barely feel my dick because its so stretched from that black cock.

Lately she been really vocal about wanting to get fucked by a big black cock, and how I can't touch her I can only watch, and how much she wants to feel a big cock inside of her, and telling me I can only fuck her after and that I will need to clean to cum off her pussy.

She also likes to turn herself to me and fuck herself with her black dildo, and telling me if I like to watch her little pussy getting stretched by another guy.



My doubt is we only talk about this during the sex, the last 2/3 times we fucked, I asked her in the eyes multiple times if she really wants a big cock, and if she would like me to find a black guy to fuck her, and if shes really interested in getting fucked in front of me, and she says Yes , with a lot of confidence.



We are not only boyfriend/girlfriend but we're also best friends, and we always had an amazing relationship and everything seems perfect. So I want to make sure of the signals she sents me. She says that with me it's the first time she feels really loved and cared, and that she can be herself with me without being afraid of the judgment of other people.



Help a friend out!

I think you can proceed to find a black guy to fuck her. Than go from there.

 

[amateur_19]

GF roleplay or she wants it? Help!

M(25) here, been in a 6 years relationship with GF(25), she was my 1st sexual experience, but she already had 3 sexual experiences, we met in uni and been together ever since and we always had amazing communication between us and no serious fighting or arguing.

I introduced her to my fantasies of cuckolding/interracial play around 2 years ago, we have like 6/7 black dildos that she uses every week and roleplays with, we started with getting some small toys and eventually moved to some bigger ones (currently using Jason Luv dildo), and start gradually watching interracial/cuckold porn and now we do it at least once/twice a week.

6 months ago we went on a 4 day vacation and she was talking a lot about finding a guy to do a threesome but close to the date she quit that idea and told that it was better to wait a little bit more.



During sex, when we watching porn she always fucks her toy, and likes to dirty talk to me, saying how much she love big cocks and how he's way bigger than me and when I fuck her after she says that she can barely feel my dick because its so stretched from that black cock.

Lately she been really vocal about wanting to get fucked by a big black cock, and how I can't touch her I can only watch, and how much she wants to feel a big cock inside of her, and telling me I can only fuck her after and that I will need to clean to cum off her pussy.

She also likes to turn herself to me and fuck herself with her black dildo, and telling me if I like to watch her little pussy getting stretched by another guy.



My doubt is we only talk about this during the sex, the last 2/3 times we fucked, I asked her in the eyes multiple times if she really wants a big cock, and if she would like me to find a black guy to fuck her, and if shes really interested in getting fucked in front of me, and she says Yes , with a lot of confidence.



We are not only boyfriend/girlfriend but we're also best friends, and we always had an amazing relationship and everything seems perfect. So I want to make sure of the signals she sents me. She says that with me it's the first time she feels really loved and cared, and that she can be herself with me without being afraid of the judgment of other people.



Help a friend out!

I'd say don't push her up, first let her express how she feels and don't rush her up with a guy.

First she needs to like and be comfortable. Like normal dates, sexting in mobile, etc

Check your dm

 

[Migueel]

Thank you both, I'll make sure to only go forward when she feels ready, dont want to throw away everything just for a moment..

 

[Suedostbaier]

when you read through many internet discussion forums, you get one idea most of all: Many people use these forums to vent anger hatred and acid feelings against other participants....what a difference to the forums here. understanding, sincere advice, help and sympathy...isn´t that a proof that cuckolding is a very sensitive and humane activity? Perhaps in a forum for "BULLS ONLY" it might be different...

 

[AndyCee777]

You won’t know until you try..If possible let her pick he first..let the energy build and let her have Fun and enjoy the moment..

 

[3xcuck4bbc]

Ummm don’t listen to this. Wives will do the max after BBC. GFs will most certainly dump you and definitely only give the pussy to BBC. She won’t marry you. Hope you’re ready. Marriage itself is what usually saves us white beta bois from losing our women to BBC.