The very very best way to make your last feel desired, attractive is to show her how much you desire her and find her attractive.
This is just about lots of great sex. It's about paying her sincere compliments about how she looks. Be specific. Compliment how nice her hair looks, how lovely her eyes are, how good she looks in what she is wearing.
Touch is important, and I don't me grabbing her ass or tits all the time. Hold her hand, touch her lovingly as you walk past her. Yeah give her backside a pat or grab at times also. Tell her how much just looking at her gets you going.
The more confidence you help her build , the more confidence she will have
A lot of women think other men wouldn’t want them for various reasons. Sometimes it is post kid body changes. Building her confidence is important to make her more confident and then she might consider at least flirting for you.