Giving your wife the space and time to grow sexually is important to every marriage, do you agree?
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My wife`s toys are all thicker and bigger. For a long time, I didn`t think she played with herself, but I found out she been getting off for years.
Give your wife the tools, the time and the space to explore her own sexuality and reap the rewards, you won't ever regret it
Give your sexy little wife the space and time she needs and she's going to fuck that little married pussy of hers like she only ever dreamed you could fuck it, hard, deep lovingly, trust he if you do this for her she'll start doing things for you that you never even dreamed she'd do
Right now she only has a vibrating butt plug I bought for her a month ago. She loves it but clearly needs a dildo or two. I've told her to take some "alone" time with it but right now she says its not the same without me there. I think its years of never enjoying herself by herself bu thopefully, a large dildo will help. She admitted the other night when I was in her and had the plug in her butt that she loves having both holes filled. I think this is a really dood sign but don't want to go too fast .
Don't be silly, get her a dildo ASAP, she may not admit to you that she's using it first up, but she will use it daily.
This is what she'll be doing every time you out of the house
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That's my plan. I'll gget a smaller one (6ish) for her to use anally and then something bigger (8-9 and thick - I'm about 7)) for her pussy when I'm in her ass. Keep the GIFs coming.. they're great. Appreciate the encouragement and advice!
if she's not used to using dildo's just maybe you should reconsider the sizes your thinking about to start with at least
Once my wife really got into this lifestyle, I made sure I supported her properly and gave her the time and space she needed. Running a business, raising three kids, and managing a home was a lot for her, and I could see some days were overwhelming.
When we moved into this arrangement, everything was always open and honest between us—no secrets. I respected her needs and made sure she had time for herself when she wanted it. That often meant me taking the kids out for the day so she could relax, unwind, and spend her time how she chose.
I’d always communicate clearly about when I was coming home, usually a few hours later, so she could plan her day. If she needed a bit more time, I was fine with that too.
I still remember coming home with the kids and seeing her completely relaxed and happy—no stress, just at ease. Later on, she would often thank me for giving her that space.
Now in my early 60s, she still has two younger partners she sees regularly. While I can’t meet all her physical needs like I used to, the honesty, trust, and openness between us have kept our marriage strong and secure.
When we moved into this arrangement, everything was always open and honest between us—no secrets. I respected her needs and made sure she had time for herself when she wanted it. That often meant me taking the kids out for the day so she could relax, unwind, and spend her time how she chose.
I’d always communicate clearly about when I was coming home, usually a few hours later, so she could plan her day. If she needed a bit more time, I was fine with that too.
I still remember coming home with the kids and seeing her completely relaxed and happy—no stress, just at ease. Later on, she would often thank me for giving her that space.
Now in my early 60s, she still has two younger partners she sees regularly. While I can’t meet all her physical needs like I used to, the honesty, trust, and openness between us have kept our marriage strong and secure.
Ok. You have more experience here so I'll defer to your suggestions..and Thanks!
Great post! I totally understand this except we haven't gotten to a point of her playing.. I'm 62 and she's 55. Some subtle signals lately but maybe reading to much into it.
So many females have been raised to believe that anything that makes them happy is wrong that it is bad. My wife was included in that. While she was more than willing to fuck other guys, it took around 15 years for her to finally venture into the "self-love" area and even then it took encouragement from me.
First we shopped for sex toys together. She wanted to stay small (not sure why considering she clearly doesn't like small lol). We bought a small vibe with assorted sleeves and a g-spot vibe, then I grabbed a thick 8-inch dildo. She loved for me to use them on her, which I gathered was at least partly due to her wanting me to pleasure her. Gradually she began using a vibe on her clit while I used the dildo on her. Occasionally when I sensed she was close I would slip the dildo out and watch her finish with a vibe on her clit. After a few times of that she stared reprimanding me to put it back in and help her cum.
One night she just took over. I let go of the dildo for some reason and next thing I knew she was fucking away at her pussy with it. At one point she pulled it out and held it out for me to suck and said "Make it wet for me" then shoved it back in and stayed with it until she had a shaking orgasm. After that she used them all the time. She also takes them with her when she goes on business trips and puts on a show for guys. So I guess it's safe to say she found her comfort zone lol
First we shopped for sex toys together. She wanted to stay small (not sure why considering she clearly doesn't like small lol). We bought a small vibe with assorted sleeves and a g-spot vibe, then I grabbed a thick 8-inch dildo. She loved for me to use them on her, which I gathered was at least partly due to her wanting me to pleasure her. Gradually she began using a vibe on her clit while I used the dildo on her. Occasionally when I sensed she was close I would slip the dildo out and watch her finish with a vibe on her clit. After a few times of that she stared reprimanding me to put it back in and help her cum.
One night she just took over. I let go of the dildo for some reason and next thing I knew she was fucking away at her pussy with it. At one point she pulled it out and held it out for me to suck and said "Make it wet for me" then shoved it back in and stayed with it until she had a shaking orgasm. After that she used them all the time. She also takes them with her when she goes on business trips and puts on a show for guys. So I guess it's safe to say she found her comfort zone lol
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Giving your wife the space and time to grow sexually is important to every marriage, do you agree?
Fully.
Fortunately for me, this started before we got married.
My future wife loved receiving attention from other men. Especially in front of me.
We grew up with 'harmless' sexual behaviour, such as men groping her breasts.
Until, that is, almost 40 years later, when she wanted to become a real housewife.
We decided to change our lifestyle, as we had always fantasised about doing, and looked for a club.
We didn't make any rules, so she could behave however she wanted.
My wife took advantage of this.
She discovered the world of sex more and more.
She turned me into her bi-husband.
Kissing me with her mouth full of cum became one of her favourite things to do, especially when done in front of a crowd.
She even experienced, with much pleasure, a big gang bang.
Once she fell in love with a regular lover, she lost all her shyness.
We talked in detail about the sex she had had or would like to have with him.
All of this brought us closer than ever before. It may seem strange to readers, but it was the truth.
That's fantastic that she got passed her misinformed beliefs and learned that what she dies with her pussy is her business and no one else's, have fun
Every couple should set aside a 2 or 3 hour window at least once a week for her to explore an experiment with her own body/sexuality without fear of reprisal, guys the better she knows her own body and becomes more and more comfortable with it the more daring and relaxed she will become to your wildest fantasies
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