Hi everyone, I'm new here and I want to share my experience. My wife and I have been married for 4 years. I've always been weak in penetration and generally preferred oral sex. I had cuckold feelings and finally decided to try it with my wife. We found a bull online and started meeting with him. It's been going on since last summer. Initially, we started at the bull's house, and once we felt comfortable and at ease, we continued. We enjoyed it. Then, I gave my wife to the bull in my bed at my house. Impregnation, semen cleaning, humiliation – all of these things happened, but recently their meetings have become more frequent (especially at the beginning, I allowed them to meet alone often for comfort and to get used to each other). My wife now goes to his house and sleeps with him without telling me, and I only find out later. She even takes care of the bull's house, cleaning and cooking, sometimes without even telling me. The bull, in his humiliating acts, repeatedly says that both my house and my wife now belong to him and that he will impregnate her. While this situation excites me, I can't help but wonder if things have gone wrong.
Gone wrong or?
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what kind of agreement did you have with your wife before this started? did you both agree on rules & boundaries?
i would agree with the previous inquiry...was any of this discussed beforehand? i know from personal experience you can never forsee every possible outcome....and believe me...mine took a turn i didnt see coming...but really...what choice do you have now?
Of course, we made some decisions beforehand, but these were generally decisions focused on privacy, security, and ending things if necessary. I think what was effective in this regard was allowing them to meet alone from the beginning to make things easier, and Bull's being single, willing, and having a tough personality were also influential. Once trust was established in the beginning, I was understanding so that they could fully experience the situation, and now the process is at the point I described.
Your discussions were around privacy, SECURITY and ending things if necessary. Your house belongs to you, he is overstepping. End it.
I answered the question above; you can read it if you'd like. I believe you're in a similar situation? I'm curious how yours evolved, if you'd like to share it...
The reason I'm not taking action in that direction right now is because I feel like these things are happening within the experience itself. However, deep down, I think that's really what she thinks. My wife is happy with the situation, and I don't want to ruin our relationship. So I'm undecided whether the situation is acceptable or has crossed the line. From what I understand, you think it has crossed the line. Thank you. My English is intermediate; I use translation for some longer conversations. Please excuse any minor errors.
For me this would go way to far, but we're also not into the humiliaton thing. We always had some good agreements and after some time when I felt more comfortable I gave her the space for one on one, but even then she made sure there was some video coverage of them.
eventually being feminized and instructed to submit
So how long has it been, did it last and how are things going now?
a few years now...i think most and i know i cant speak for all doms/bulls...but i think there is a satisfaction they get from not only getting to be with the cuck's wife but also in having the cuckold submit and always be sub....a lot of that the times i think that involves feminization of the cuck. i wear panties and often a camisole under my work clothes, running errands or spending time, attending church, spending time with family etc. i am instructed to dress fully whenever i am at home and whenever i am invited along with the meets with wife and her dom/bull.
And I presume you welcome it and enjoy? Or just do it for them?
initially it was awkward and i wondered what if this was something i really wanted to do....but my wife reminded me that this...all of this...getting her shared with other men was my idea. that i would just have to suck it up and comply...this was my consequence for wanting her shared. having dressed for quite awhile now...it is second nature to slip on a pair of panties in the morning...a camisole...as i dress for work. the days i work from home or have a day off...my wife,maggie,ensures that i dress as i should and reminds me throughout the day if i begin acting too masculine. she no longer really thinks of me as her husband...just for appearances...and i must always address her as yes ma'am
Crazy. You said it's been going on for a few years, so when did this feminization and lingerie thing start? Was it early in the relationship or later? I agree with your observations about bulls dominating their husbands. Aside from the dressing up and femininity, we're in a similar situation. My wife also sees him as her husband, not me, and it's like he's taken my wife away from me.
