Got my girlfriend a dildo. She hates it!

[jadorehardcore]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

 

[Aznhubby]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

I slowly got my wife comfy with it. Now she really enjoys it.

 

[Olompali]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

I had a similar problem with my wife. I ordered a large 9" bbc dildo and she said it looked too big (Which to be fair, it did!). One day she was lying naked on her front and I started trailing it up and down her back and ass, so she could feel the weight of it in her. I spread her legs from behind and felt her pussy, to find it was soaking wet! I eased the head of the dildo inside, and started slowly moving it in and out. She groaned and came very quickly, followed by me shooting all over her ass. She told me afterwards that the weight of the dildo on her back had really turned her on and she knew how much I wanted it in. She's since taken the whole length.....

 

[Hwcouple702]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

Tell her to order the one she would rather have then. At least let her get started in her own way. After she's comfortable (which will be very soon) she can begin to use the larger one.

 

[Joecde3vfr4]

I picked up an 8” Jelly Vibe that I thought my wife would love. She never uses it, she sticks with her Lovense Lush, she has always enjoyed clitoral stimulation more than deep penetration, and she is barely 7” deep. Some women don’t love big as much as we would like them to.

I suggest blindfolding her and playing a game of guess how much is in you! My wife was blindfolded when I introduced this vibe.

 

[WNY3somecple]

It is a problem many men have when buying sex toys for their ladies. First they think mostly about what they want and what they imagine her reaction will be. Second they forget (thanks to porn) that real life women have a wife variety of wants , desires, what feels good to them and what doesn't. Just because women in porn automatically cum at the mere site of a big cock doesn't mean every woman does.

Plus there is the emotional aspect. She may be thinking "what does he think of me that he thinks that huge thing will fit".

Start with something more in line with your size then if she is willing work your way up.

In blind test studies where they used realistic looking dildos (except for color , they used all purple or all blue to eliminate color bias). The most popular choices size wise were in the 6 to 7 inch range.

 

[WNY3somecple]

My advice is always shop together at least the first few times and if not then slow down and be a little conservative on what you buy.

For instance if you want to get a butt plug, but maybe she is so so on anal. Start small.

But then again as I said all women are different and going large might work. But overall I favor playing a more patient game.

 

[btweets]

Tell her to order the one she would rather have then. At least let her get started in her own way. After she's comfortable (which will be very soon) she can begin to use the larger one.

I would agree completely! Maybe both of you can go to an adult bookstore, and let her pick one out.

 

[Justus22020]

I got my wife a 9 inch black dildo a few years back. At first she wasn't sure about it would only try an inch or two. I left it alone and one day I came home to her dressed in lingerie. She had told me she was horny that day and wanted to dress up for me. She got horny thinking of what she was going to do to me she pulled out the dildo and in no time she was riding it all . She said she exploded in orgasm and couldn't wait till I got home to fuck a real cock.

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

I had a similar problem with my wife. I ordered a large 9" bbc dildo and she said it looked too big (Which to be fair, it did!). One day she was lying naked on her front and I started trailing it up and down her back and ass, so she could feel the weight of it in her. I spread her legs from behind and felt her pussy, to find it was soaking wet! I eased the head of the dildo inside, and started slowly moving it in and out. She groaned and came very quickly, followed by me shooting all over her ass. She told me afterwards that the weight of the dildo on her back had really turned her on and she knew how much I wanted it in. She's since taken the whole length.....

That’s hot

 

[owlcuck]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

Start with a smaller one and use it while your licking her pussy she will get addicted too it.

 

[Distraction79]

Don't choose the size of the dildo for her, you pretty much will mess it up.
I let my wife choose while I gave her oral and she chose a 12cm aluminium dildo, I would have never guessed that.
The last dildo which I bought, i chose the size for, but only after double checking that it is slightly smaller than I am and also not that girthy, but pretty close ... in black ;-).
We tested last weekend and although she said it looks pretty big, maybe too big, it actually was a good fit. But I was not able to fuck her with this thing, only pushing it in and moving around but no in/out movements as those were a bit painful for her, maybe not enough lube

 

[owlcuck]

Don't choose the size of the dildo for her, you pretty much will mess it up.
I let my wife choose while I gave her oral and she chose a 12cm aluminium dildo, I would have never guessed that.
The last dildo which I bought, i chose the size for, but only after double checking that it is slightly smaller than I am and also not that girthy, but pretty close ... in black ;-).
We tested last weekend and although she said it looks pretty big, maybe too big, it actually was a good fit. But I was not able to fuck her with this thing, only pushing it in and moving around but no in/out movements as those were a bit painful for her, maybe not enough lube

Take slow she will get stretch and use to it and then addicted to it. Mine did and she wants it every time we play.

 

[discreet1985]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

Get her a lovense toy, you can still play together even when you're away.

 

[Landm4fun]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

I got my wife to try a big dildo by first fantasizing with her about her playing with a real big cock. Asking her about her sexual history and if she ever had a guy fuck her with a big cock.
One night before I went down on her I asked her if she was ready to play with his big cock.
I went down on her making sure she got really wet and when I knew the time was right I put the huge dildo in her. She about exploded.
After that we slowly progressed until I made our fantasies true

 

[ray28]

GF is young (25), and I want to start pushing her into the world of cuckoldry. I am a 30M with an above-average sized penis.

At the moment, I just want to see her taking a big dildo. One night she was horny and I kinda convinced her to pick a dildo from Amazon. She chose the color (at first she wanted a black one! how exciting!! but then she asked for a pink one, bummer) and I chose the size. Since I wanted something bigger, I chose 9x5.6". I got such a hardon that I had to relieve myself after! The thought of something big stretching her was so exciting!

I'm currently working in a different state, and she's received the package. She told me she hates it! "It's disgusting", "It's too big", "Actually, I hate putting anything that isn't you inside of me"! oh jeez. what a bummer

How do I proceed from here? I'm coming back home in a week, and I thought about getting her in the mood, teasing her a lot, using my fingers on her, and then maybe suggest to use it to "warm up" (although it's the absolute highlight for me).

Love to play with u 2 on cam

 

[naturalcucky]

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