Wondering if anyone can help me understand things a little better, me and my husband have spoke for what seems like forever about introducing a regular guy into our marriage. We’ve been on a few sites for years and at times for me it feels overwhelming trying to keep up with the level of attention and interaction that’s required!
A few years back we met with another couple for a full swap and all was going in the right direction until the guy couldn’t “Perform” I’m not sure if it was nerves or what went wrong but it really put us off as this was our first experience and it actually had a negative effect on me.
Recently we’ve been talking of different ways to maybe try again and my husband is almost obsessed with it being a single guy, he loves when I chat online, I’ve on occasion done live play on sites and it’s made him wild seeing the guys comment or give instructions where as for me it’s more a turn on being watched…
I’m trying to understand a bit more as to how his triggers work
A few weeks back I was chatting with our gardener and things got a little flirty, he’s at our home every week so we get on well, I explained to my husband that he was a bit flirty and he was instantly turned on by this, we’ve been flirting a bit by text and I’ve sent him some cheeky pics, I’ve also explained my husband is aware we are chatting and I’ve sent all our screenshots to hubby which seems to drive him absolutely wild
He told me if I ever get the chance to take it and the way the texts between us make him feel is completely new, I’m trying to understand this more like why does jealousy turn him on, why would he be happy me doing stuff without him seeing etc?
I’m not opposed to the idea as it’s exciting and something different I’m just trying to work out how to understand what makes him the wildest and work on that side of things I guess
Rosie xxx
A few years back we met with another couple for a full swap and all was going in the right direction until the guy couldn’t “Perform” I’m not sure if it was nerves or what went wrong but it really put us off as this was our first experience and it actually had a negative effect on me.
Recently we’ve been talking of different ways to maybe try again and my husband is almost obsessed with it being a single guy, he loves when I chat online, I’ve on occasion done live play on sites and it’s made him wild seeing the guys comment or give instructions where as for me it’s more a turn on being watched…
I’m trying to understand a bit more as to how his triggers work
A few weeks back I was chatting with our gardener and things got a little flirty, he’s at our home every week so we get on well, I explained to my husband that he was a bit flirty and he was instantly turned on by this, we’ve been flirting a bit by text and I’ve sent him some cheeky pics, I’ve also explained my husband is aware we are chatting and I’ve sent all our screenshots to hubby which seems to drive him absolutely wild
He told me if I ever get the chance to take it and the way the texts between us make him feel is completely new, I’m trying to understand this more like why does jealousy turn him on, why would he be happy me doing stuff without him seeing etc?
I’m not opposed to the idea as it’s exciting and something different I’m just trying to work out how to understand what makes him the wildest and work on that side of things I guess
Rosie xxx