Here’s the thing, I KNOW he’ll be 💯 Hooked if I share her with him. What if she is too?!

[imherManwantHER]

I’ve been trying to convince my wife that I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence, most likely as a threesome where both of us guys concentrate on her pleasure. She’s been receptive to the discussion and has come to enjoy the discussions as well as getting off on calling my attention to instances where guys hit on her more, lately.
Now, there’s this one guy friend of mine who just moved back here and is recently divorced. He’s a clean cut, fit, good looking black guy, a couple of years older than us. I introduced him to my wife and my sister about a year ago when we were out to dinner one night. He’s already been banging my sister 😝 and we hear all about it. She tells my wife about how big he is and how long he lasts, etc. My wife gets excited but says in private that she’s not interested in him because she believes my sister has strong feelings for him and visa versa. Tonight, he finally got around to sending my wife a friend request and a dm. She told me as soon as she saw, very excitedly said she thought she’d wait a few hours to accept, read, and maybe respond.
Things have gotten real all of a sudden and it’s super exciting!
My honest concern is that if she goes through with playing with him at all, she’ll go ahead and take him in all the way. When she does, I know he’s gonna be hooked on my girl and living in the area now, I’m concerned that an eventual desire to connect without me present might become hard to keep at bay.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

I’ve been trying to convince my wife that I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence, most likely as a threesome where both of us guys concentrate on her pleasure. She’s been receptive to the discussion and has come to enjoy the discussions as well as getting off on calling my attention to instances where guys hit on her more, lately.
Now, there’s this one guy friend of mine who just moved back here and is recently divorced. He’s a clean cut, fit, good looking black guy, a couple of years older than us. I introduced him to my wife and my sister about a year ago when we were out to dinner one night. He’s already been banging my sister 😝 and we hear all about it. She tells my wife about how big he is and how long he lasts, etc. My wife gets excited but says in private that she’s not interested in him because she believes my sister has strong feelings for him and visa versa. Tonight, he finally got around to sending my wife a friend request and a dm. She told me as soon as she saw, very excitedly said she thought she’d wait a few hours to accept, read, and maybe respond.
Things have gotten real all of a sudden and it’s super exciting!
My honest concern is that if she goes through with playing with him at all, she’ll go ahead and take him in all the way. When she does, I know he’s gonna be hooked on my girl and living in the area now, I’m concerned that an eventual desire to connect without me present might become hard to keep at bay.

Intriguing.

Excited but not interested makes me smile.

It’s a bit like saying ‘the idea excites me, and but for my SIL, I’d go for it.’ Not interested?

Yeah right! 😄

Then she gets very excited — as soon as she sees his request. She holds herself back from replying so as not to show how very much this excites her.

The most interesting thing here is your sister’s role. She’s got to know that her description of how good he is on the saddle is affecting your wife. But apparently, she keeps doing it anyway. And now that this discussion is ‘normalized,’ a text . . .

Have any hunches about what’s being shared about this between him and your sister? Is she telling him that whenever she discusses their lovemaking, your wife is super attentive, I can feel her heat from across the room, etc.?

You yourself find all this super exciting. Suddenly. Why?

Your sister has primed your wife for it.

Sis had reported back that this talk arouses your wife — every time it happens.

Your wife’s ‘not interested’ rationale as much as admits her attraction despite her excitement.

Something prompted him to reach out to your wife.

You see her very excited response and know that preliminaries are over and the game is on.

Imagine if YOU started apprising him of your wife’s response . . .

If your sister knows he is reading your wife snd reporting back to him [of course she foes], she’s in on it.

I think this can happen profoundly beautifully and remarkably easily.

Keep communication going. Stand by your wife and support her whatever she decides.

Take care and all the best!