Here we go 😮 and I don’t know how to react tbh

This sounds very similar to how it went down with my wife and I. Happy to chat about our experience with her ex and how we slowly initiated role playing him fucking her and went to her DMing him and then him telling her he was coming to town for work and me encouraging her to spend the weekend with him. The whole way I felt in control of the situation, but reflecting on it later I realize she guided the entire situation for me to approve of. Her acting like she wasn't sure was just her way of feeling out my feelings, She wanted his big cock the whole time, she just pretended like she didn't need it so it would be my idea... my advice is to take it slow and let her guide it at her pace... as long as you know you want this to happen and have truly thought about how you will feel afterwards. I thought i wanted it and I had fantasized about it for years before hand, but when it actually happened I went through a lot of emotional turmoil. It is a big step from fantasy to reality and while I am happy she did it, I am still conflicted and we haven't done it in a while and may not again. it is a huge step no matter what anyone says. Happy to answer any questions.
 
This sounds very similar to how it went down with my wife and I. Happy to chat about our experience with her ex and how we slowly initiated role playing him fucking her and went to her DMing him and then him telling her he was coming to town for work and me encouraging her to spend the weekend with him. The whole way I felt in control of the situation, but reflecting on it later I realize she guided the entire situation for me to approve of. Her acting like she wasn't sure was just her way of feeling out my feelings, She wanted his big cock the whole time, she just pretended like she didn't need it so it would be my idea... my advice is to take it slow and let her guide it at her pace... as long as you know you want this to happen and have truly thought about how you will feel afterwards. I thought i wanted it and I had fantasized about it for years before hand, but when it actually happened I went through a lot of emotional turmoil. It is a big step from fantasy to reality and while I am happy she did it, I am still conflicted and we haven't done it in a while and may not again. it is a huge step no matter what anyone says. Happy to answer any questions.
Yes, it’s something I’d like to discuss with you more. Seems our situation could be very much similar and I’d appreciated your insight. Especially as it pertains to the reality vs. fantasy setting in once it’s happening.
 
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Today, after she finished work in our home office, she told me she’d checked the tax records online to be sure what location was his actual current residence. Also, where his business is located. I can virtually see her wiggling, smirking and it’s like I can see her feel the tingling and excitement each time it’s brought up. Most notably, this is the days in a row where she’s in some way brought the scenario up (and him up) first without my initiating any conversation about it. šŸ˜
Think my girl’s actually getting worked up for this.
 
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Today, after she finished work in our home office, she told me she’d checked the tax records online to be sure what location was his actual current residence. Also, where his business is located. I can virtually see her wiggling, smirking and it’s like I can see her feel the tingling and excitement each time it’s brought up. Most notably, this is the days in a row where she’s in some way brought the scenario up (and him up) first without my initiating any conversation about it. šŸ˜
Think my girl’s actually getting worked up for this.
I think you are right she wants this,šŸ‘
 
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I think you are right she wants this,šŸ‘
Yeah, she’s having dinner right now with her girlfriends from high school. I dropped her off and she’s getting a ride to another place downtown right afterwards with one of the girls. The girl is still in contact and friends with the guy via Facebook. She said she’s gonna ask her if she’s talked to him or heard anything from him recently.
On the way, I said I’d probably have to get her tipsy to get her #*#led, to see her actually go through with the act itself and without hesitation she said, Yeah, probably and I don’t want to drink but you’re probably right.ā€
She would have never in a million years been as actively engaged with the kink and participating in ā€œthe huntā€ if it weren’t steady on her mind now. šŸ˜
I’ve got to start thinking more for real about the long term play and how we’re going to proceed. That’s šŸ’Æ clear now.