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Absolutely! I meet guys on a few REPUTABLE sites very frequently! I would NEVER consider meeting a "free" member though. A guy who is too cheap to pay for a membership isn't the kind of guy I'm willing to meet.

You would need to read the forum posts from the specific site in order to learn how to put together an APPEALING profile. So many guys join the lifestyle sites who have no game, a pathetic profile and have no idea how to make themselves notable in a positive way. Many others actually (and this is stunningly stupid to me) put together a profile without pics!! Can you imagine that? Guys who are too cheap to pay a few bucks a month for a profile on a reputable site, who expect to meet other guys' wives without so much as even posting a photo of themselves and then put together a profile that contains absolutely zero useful information about themselves and send "one word messages".

Mrs Hotwife
I’ve been on paid “reputable” sites and have met mainly only bots or scams. Last one was a woman in her early 60’s that said she hated dancing but was a dance teacher before that, then told me she liked deep bass music. Imo you would have better luck there than a man because it’s all of us thirsty dudes on there lmao
 
I’ve been on paid “reputable” sites and have met mainly only bots or scams. Last one was a woman in her early 60’s that said she hated dancing but was a dance teacher before that, then told me she liked deep bass music. Imo you would have better luck there than a man because it’s all of us thirsty dudes on there lmao
I couldn't tell you. I don't know which sites you consider "reputable" nor have I seen your profile or pics from the sites. But lots of guys meet women on the lifestyle sites I'm on. It's hard to tell. Most guys I meet from the sites get lucky if we click. That happens quite often. Best of luck. If I am having "better luck there than a man" then I would be having sex with myself it would seem. Every time I get laid, so does a man?
 
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Exactly!! In most cases, this site is NOT the type of place to meet potential play mates. We are here for the community, the stories, the pics and the sexy vibe. We have met exactly ONE guy from the site and that was by coincidence. The video is posted on our profile but not easily accessible since our profile is restricted.
I find that a lot. Many people make the mistake of assuming that any lifestyle site is a site where people are looking to meet others for sex. There are sites like that, there are others like this where the purpose is more about sharing stories, then about actually meeting up with people from the website.
 
I don't know about this being a good site. My husband initially set up this account but it didn't take long for him to give up here. Now I'm the one online 99% of the time but still I have yet to meet anyone here. There's ben a few that claim they are close enough but when they find out it could actually happen they disappear. I have far better luck at the grocery store.;)
Yea it seems like that on every site. They talk all this game and when it comes to actually playing they disappear like a fart in the wind.
 
I find that a lot. Many people make the mistake of assuming that any lifestyle site is a site where people are looking to meet others for sex. There are sites like that, there are others like this where the purpose is more about sharing stories, then about actually meeting up with people from the website.
I am all about meeting on the lifestyle dating sites I belong to. This site really isn't one of those. We love the community here and have great, sexy fun, but it's not really set up for meeting "vetted" members. Did anybody read that article we posted about meeting in the lifestyle? It's a video from a former porn star but now lifestyle "coach" where she goes through exactly how to meet on lifestyle sites and all of the pitfalls.

I will attach the link if I can find the post.

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Exactly!! In most cases, this site is NOT the type of place to meet potential play mates. We are here for the community, the stories, the pics and the sexy vibe. We have met exactly ONE guy from the site and that was by coincidence. The video is posted on our profile but not easily accessible since our profile is restricted.
If you ever needed an outside, unbiased, opinion on your ability to inspire MR Happy to standing at attention, PLEASE feel free to send me a copy of said video. LOL